Who do you wish to be the first: A boy or a girl?

@caesarin (1091)
Indonesia
May 10, 2007 10:37pm CST
I never mind who will come first, a boy or a girl but in this patriarchal world, I worry about who'll come first. I'm sorry if I'm wrong but I believe most people in this world believe that a boy is a father successor, a leader later in the family. This is a patriarchal world though these days things are changing, These days more people doesn't mind to have all girls in the family or girl first in the family. I asked my husband for his expectation before my delivery, he said he doesn't mind if it was going to be a boy or a girl. Now we have a daughter, and she's 15 months already, and many people thought that she's a boy. But we're both happy with it, never mind. She's beautiful! How about you? Do you expect a boy or a girl to come first?
1 response
@nnsb75 (632)
• United States
11 May 07
i did not expect to have a boy or a girl at first but i have a boy and now im 5 months pregnant for the second time i was wishing before to have a girl but i went to my OBGYN the other day and had my ultrasound and i found out im having a boy again, my husband is a little dissappointed coz this is his fourth boys, he had 2 boys also w/ his first married and now his having another one with me.