do you agree or disagree with campus love between teacher and student ?
By laiyongjun
@laiyongjun (1336)
China
13 responses
@r0131n (357)
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11 May 07
Its hard to agree and also hard to disagree. I agree in the sense that if 2 people are in love then it should not matter who they are and what they do. After all, love is love. On the other hand the gap between a teacher and student must be maintained at college or university. It is important that all students be treated the same and its difficult for a teacher to maintain equality between students if love is in the middle of it.
@r0131n (357)
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12 May 07
You're right there. It depends on both parties. Sooner or later, someone will give in and want some more. Even if they act professionally while at university, there's always some influence or even coercion that is bound to happen outside. This in turn will be unfair to others.
Again, even if I do not agree with love between teacher and student, it is still difficult to not fall in love if there is mutual attraction. It is hard to control love.
@laiyongjun (1336)
• China
26 May 07
thank you for replying again.
that is true.
thank you very much.
@laiyongjun (1336)
• China
12 May 07
thank you for replying.yes, it depends on the teacher and the student how to balance the situation.but how many teachers can do fairly?
such as, if i were a boss in campany, and you were my employee and also relative,sometimes it is not easy to control the balance to others.
thank you very much.
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@zengguoxing (773)
• China
12 May 07
If there's real love between them,i will say "yes".Cause love without limitation of age,i think.There are many such examples,aren't there?Even some world super star in physics.Don't you think so?
@laiyongjun (1336)
• China
12 May 07
thank you for replying. i know so many super or famous people fall love with someone who is their fellowers.no matter how far the age between them, they also love each other deeply.
but the point i mention is the love between the teacher and the student in campus.
thank you very much.
@shak143 (1280)
• India
11 May 07
Love between teacher and student i agree with it.As per me there is nothing restrictions like that students have to love only with students and teachers with teachrers and doctors with doctors and so on.
If there is nothing wrong in love between a doctor and patient then how it come wrong a love between teacher and a student.Aren't there humanbeings......
@laiyongjun (1336)
• China
12 May 07
thank you for replaying. it is a good idea.but have you thought how about others student's feeling. if you classmate is your teacher's love, can you call him or her "teacher lover"?
thank you very much.
@di1indilin (802)
• India
11 May 07
Nope, i don't agree with campus love between teacher and student. Because i think that it's just not right to have an affair with your guru.
@laiyongjun (1336)
• China
12 May 07
thank you for replying.
it is just not right to have an affair with the teacher, i also think that.
anything else?
thank you very much.
@laiyongjun (1336)
• China
12 May 07
thank you for replying.i am so glad to hear that you have ever met such a good teacher.to be a teacher is not easy, to be a good teacher is more difficult.
thank you very much.
@prateekchalana (85)
• India
12 May 07
No, i am strictly against the campus love between teachers and students.... Teacher and student should have respectful relationship and they should maintain it for ever .Teachers are there to teach and students are there to gain knowledge..According to me thinking of love with your teacher is a sin
@laiyongjun (1336)
• China
12 May 07
thank you for replying. if the love between the teacher and the student is a true love. do you want still want to oppose to it.
sometimes love is not to be controled.
thank you very much.
@mypeace (393)
• Nigeria
11 May 07
Whao!! I disagree and also agree. disagree on the basis if the teacher victimised, intimidate or coarsed the student in submission. Alternatively, if they are in-love and on their own want to have a relations, its all well and good. ln my school days, there was this instance of a teacher that married out of our coursemates. So it depends on the area you are looking at it. However, teacher supposed to be role models to their students.
@laiyongjun (1336)
• China
11 May 07
i don't know whether your opinion is true or false.but actually, i don't agree with the love between teacher and student.
if your classmate is a lover of your teacher, what do you think of your classmate? do you feel uncomfortable?
@cheisentie (142)
• Philippines
11 May 07
a big no!!! i don`t agree because there are unfair treatment in the students.. and i think it`s one of the crazy things happen inside the university.. it`s better to be friends not lovers..
@laiyongjun (1336)
• China
12 May 07
thank you for responding.i also don't agree with it. but when they fall in love with each other, how they can be friends? thank you very much.
@laiyongjun (1336)
• China
11 May 07
tell you the truth,there are so many campous lovers between teachers and students in my university.can you imagine?
@ZaffireWolf (480)
• United States
11 May 07
If you think college is graded fairly already, you've got another thing coming.
@laiyongjun (1336)
• China
12 May 07
thank you for responding. yes, the college is not always graded fairly,but we also have to see the good side.hehe.thank you very much.
@mari_skye (1637)
• Philippines
26 May 07
i don't agree. for me, it is very improper for a teacher to have a love relationship with a student. a teacher is a role model and should act as one.
