who is the boss in your relationship?

the boss in my relationship is me. Everybody who knows me says that sometimes I am too imperious but it is me. When my boyfriend loves me he is ready to obey and I like it. Yes, maybe it is not fair but I choosed that life and I can't change it right now.

Now, I'm bossy, but neither of us is the boss and neither of us controls everything. To me that isn't what a relationship is about, it's a working partnership between two people and discussion is very important. Having said that, I'm usually the one who comes up with all the ideas of what we're going to do, but then my boyfriend can decide whether he agrees or not and I listen to what he has to say.

neither of us controls everything in our relationship. when we have to make some decisions, we discuss together. no matter whose decision is reasonable, both of us will follow that decision. i don't think we can have a good relationship if either of us try to control everything.