Do you have a bad attitude?

May 15, 2007 9:20pm CST
You know we do have a white side and dark side, i want to know your dark side. me, i am very kind to my loveones, but sometimes i am very negative thinker. And by that it affects my thinking and decision to many thing. For me its unhealthy, i don't want it to grow in me as i get old.
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
16 May 07
Well, I use to be negative a lot, but my older sister would rag on me all the time. I think that it had to do with depression. Now, I don't like being around people with a bad attitude, because it brings me down. There is usually at least one person in the crowd that is willing to point out the negativity in a situation, this is the one that I would rather avoid. I do my best to leave my crap right where I found it. I know that if I don't want to deal with anyone's crap, then 9 times out of 10, they are not going to want to deal with mine either. I can get in a bad mood at times, especially when I am angry about something, but I try my best not to take it out on anyone that is not involved and I talk myself through it as soon as possible. I know that I have a pretty bad temper, so I try to deal with the issue, before things escalate and go to far.
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• Philippines
16 May 07
it is good that you have a sister who took the pains of helping you overcome your dark side. it is true that it will be disadvantageous to be hanging around people with negative attitudes. there is a possible that this will creep inside us and before we know they have already influenced us negatively. no one among us will welcome anything like this to be happening at all.
@balasri (26553)
• India
16 May 07
I am very self centered.It is 'me first'always.I have to Over come this.
@tess1960 (2386)
• United States
16 May 07
So you are saying you do not want to be a cranky old woman! LOL Me either. I know what you mean though. I have a white side and a dark side. My dark side can make me really confused and cranky, and it messes with my memory causing more confusion. It can cause me to snap at people and not realize I have. It can cause my temper to flare. Thing is I can usually feel it coming out, but find it really hard to control. I have a white side too. The side that makes me cry at movies and fall in love with stray animals and say yes to my daughter even when I told her no before. This is the side that lets me do nice things for others and smile so much my face hurts and giggle and laugh and see the good in others. Yes, I think we all have a white side and a dark side. My dark side has a name, too. Hormones!!
• Philippines
16 May 07
my dark side. you are interested to know about it. i believe that i do not have to hide. this is something which i have made known to a lot of people around me already. if one has hurt me deeply, he/she can be sure that i can forgive after sometime. but, he/she can expect that i will never forget it. the hurt may be healed over time, but i will alwyas remember what it was.