My son is a gay

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@a_ce_e (1422)
Philippines
May 16, 2007 5:18am CST
As a parent, what might be your reaction once you had found that your son is a gay? Honestly, i am thinking this case once and i myself is really hard to accept this kind of situation, but of course he will still be my son and i will still love him. I will be sad knowing he is a gay, but i will never stop wishing him to have a normal life and be a respectful person no matter he is. How about you? What do you think your reaction in this case?
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donsky14
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
24 May 07
uhm, I would accept my kids for who and what they are. As long as they're happy and as long as they're not hurting anyone then I'm happy for them.
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a_ce_e
@a_ce_e (1422)
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
That's a good thing, besides they are still your son =). Thank you for your response.
donsky14
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
9 Jun 07
you're welcome. Ü
creb11
@creb11 (416)
• China
24 May 07
I can not stand that, it is hard for me to accept that. So I will spend most my time on him untill he give up the thought.
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a_ce_e
@a_ce_e (1422)
• Philippines
24 May 07
I guess as young as your child, you can motivate him to get rid of that thought. But what if he found out from himself that he is actually a gay during his 20's year of age, can you still spend most of your time with him? Will you accept him as he is?
bihn07
@bihn07 (22)
• United States
31 May 07
creb you are vary rude
cipher2004
@cipher2004 (1183)
• United States
12 Jun 07
One of my best friends is gay.I personally don't see anything wrong with it.If my son were gay I would treat him the same.After all he is a human being just like everyone else.
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a_ce_e
@a_ce_e (1422)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
Yeah, I agree a gay is also human and also need to be treated fairly like anybody else. Thank you for your response.
cherriemae
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
that's cool my friend..if one day, i will have a gay son, i think i would be happy because some of the gays are responsible when it comes to finding any work..rather than having a son that will give headache because some of boys are stupid and making foolishness and some are not working..gay sons need also to be love and gain respect from others because they are still human..it's alright friend..have a nice day..
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a_ce_e
@a_ce_e (1422)
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
I believe too, i knew some gays who are highly respectable in the society no matter who they are. They've been famous in the field they are in now.
us2owls
@us2owls (1681)
• United States
16 May 07
Like you I would love him because he is my son. This is not something he chose to be it is a genetic thing. Support him and love him whatever direction his life takes him. I have a couple of gay friends - I love them for who they are - not what they are.
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muddy_fox
@muddy_fox (14)
• Philippines
20 May 07
If I found my son is a gay, I will be disappointed. As long as he will not do anything against morality I will accept him.
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a_ce_e
@a_ce_e (1422)
• Philippines
24 May 07
As you said, as long as he will not do anything against morality you will accept him. What if he does? Does it mean you cannot accept him at all?
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