in general ..Are you a bottom or top?

United States
May 16, 2007 11:16pm CST
I am a bottom, sometimes I am not aggresive enough in my life. I could be more demanding in the things I want instead of just excepting what is given?
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• United States
17 May 07
I think I'm a little of both... I have times when I feel agressive, and then I have times when I feel like just excepting what is given... lately I feel like I'm excepting my circumstances, when I know my abilities and strengths I can do better then what I am doing...and I'm starting to have a better apreciation of being single... I know that I can fly to so many different hights, and there is nothing holding me back but me, but I have to learn to let people go and stop trying to please everyone but me...
• United States
17 May 07
I have to aggree with you on that as well. I sometimes feel like I'm on top , but more times than a few I seem to settle for the bottom. People are a weakness for me and I also have to learn to love my family friends without giving myself totally. It's a process though....it will get better in due time.
• United States
17 May 07
In my ounger years i loved the top,.,i loved being in control..maybe because i was a wild child and had no control of myself lol!! but now..i like the bottom..now that im always in control of everything around me..,in that moment i like the feeling of no control at all..but i do like other positions as well lol..
• United States
17 May 07
That's a good concept. Are you enjoying life as a bottom?