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@MH4444 (2161)
United States
May 17, 2007 12:19pm CST
I was thinking today as I began my day's routine how much we live for what will happen later. I decided that I want to live each day as though it is all I have. (Planning for the future of course as it is smart). I want to really stop looking for the "one" (man). I want to just forget it and live for me. I have no kids so I can really live that way. If something comes along that works great; but I am so done with the "search" or settling for some looser. Share your stories men and women on life and all that it mmeans to you.
2 responses
@latsmom (824)
17 May 07
Unfortunately life is full of dissapointmets but as the saying goes when one door closes a window is opened. i was with a guy for 8 years and we had a child together who is now 4. SOmetimes I wonder what I woudl have done with my life had aI not been settled down from the age of 16 but now at 25 and having been single for 2 years I try to embrace everything that went wrong in my life and see it as something that I never want to return to but also see it as experience in the hope that when I do find something that works for me I don't take it for granted, I think when you have gone through the bad things you appreciate the good things more than those who have had everything fall on their laps. It took me a while to realise that real life is not like a tv programme or film and that I don't NEED someone to be happy. i am now happy with who I am and anyone who I choose to start a relationship with I want it to compliment my happiness and not complicate it. i know if I stop looking and remain confident with who I am that eventually I will find someone who does not want to change me adn who will love me for who I am, I also know that one day you will find the same. x
@MH4444 (2161)
• United States
20 May 07
Yes, I like the fact that I realize that I don't need another person to be happy. I of course would love to have one that matches me; but for now I am going to live life to the fullest either way. :)
@Chryssi (828)
• United States
17 May 07
After my last relationship, I'd given up on finding someone who really loved me for who I am. I didn't want to get into another relationship, because I didn't want to be hurt again. That's when I met the love of my life. We've been together for about 6 months now, and I still believe in my heart that he's the one for me. Good luck to you, and God bless you. =)
@MH4444 (2161)
• United States
17 May 07
Thanks :)