I miss my ex BestFriend

United States
May 17, 2007 3:16pm CST
My ex Best friend and I were one of a kind, yet life has pushed us both two seperate ways... its been about 10 years since we've known each other but each day it felt like i was getting to know a whole different person... or I was not able to accept the life changes her and I were going through... so we drifted apart...but I can truly say she was a part of me which i can't explain... we never argued, but we disagreed on logic and moral apsects of life...she would finish my words... and without me having to explain myself she new what i was feeling... I could tell her my dirtest secrets and I new she would never judge me but have you ever known someone to just complete you and fit in your heart like a glove on a hand...she was like that and I lost that... and I'm wondering if it was God's way of saving me from more pain or to teach me to hold on to the people you love the most.. I would have done almost anything for her... now she has a daughter and her life has flipped upside down... and I want to be there for her but I don't know how..how do I rekindle the past and strive for the future... I know she feels the same way.. because I can see the love and feel the love in her heart... how do i fix the un mended pieces because I miss My Ex Bestfriend
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• Philippines
17 May 07
my bestfriend and i are also bestfriends since we're kids and we separated ways but though we still hear from each other consistently. It just shows that even though you're apart with a significant person in your life, you can still retain the relationship tru open communication. Just try to reach a hand and communicate to your best friend, i don't think it would bother her to have a little chat with you and that will be a good start. people come and go, that's a fact so accept it.
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• United States
18 May 07
yeah we talk every now and then... she just had a baby two months ago so I went to see her and the baby and we talked for about 3 hours catching up on old times and such... my love for her remains but there is still a empty void there that has not been furfilled
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@subha12 (18472)
• India
18 May 07
Thanks for a nice discussion. here i feel u have told my words. But it was just the opposite side. I was complement for Him. I understood hom so much you can say I know him inside out. I considered him as my best friend. But life had its cruel turn. May be he never thought me as his good friend. May be he used to behave good with me. But after i left that city, he avoided me and now there is hardly any connection. I also have decided that will not contact him any more. May be he was not worth my friendship.
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• United States
18 May 07
well you know they say if it was meant to be then he will come back, My ex best friend and I stop talking for atleast a year and we found each other on myspace so you never know... but I know it hurts loosing someone you love
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• China
18 May 07
It is very lucky that you meet a true friend in your life,so please don't give up them easily.Everyone had changed every day,we have our own life,our own family,so maybe you will feel the distance between you,don't pay attention to that,you just stant behing her,making her feel you around her.
• United States
18 May 07
Thank you... I think your words are very true and very wise... no matter what we have been through just hold on...and love her...thank you
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• United States
26 Jul 10
im only 15 years of age & BEVCAME BESTFRIENDS WITH A GUY THAT IS NOW 25 I MEET HIM WHEN I WAS 8 YEARS OLD & HE WAS IN HIGHSCHOOL. WE BECAM EREALL GOOD FRENDS EVEN MORE!!!! BUT ITS TODDASY THAT IVE LOST HIM I HAVE BEEN TRYING TO CHANGE FOR HI BYT HE SAY WERE DONE HE DOSENT WNAT MY FRIENDSHIP I EVEN DELETED MY ACOOUNT FOR SOETHING IMPORTANT I REAALLY MISS HIM I FEEL LIKE KILLING MY SELF BECAUS EHE MEANS THE WORLD TO ME HES LIKE A BROTHER THAT WAS NEVER THERE HE HELPED ME TRU OLOT ESPECIALLY WHEN I HAD FAMILY PROBLEMS I MISS HIM && UR STORY INPIRED ME OLOLT I AM RIGTH NOW CRYING BECAUE I love him & I MISS HIM I HAVE DECIDED TO LET HIM GO BECUASE IM HURT & I HATE MY LIFE I WANT TO BE ALONE!!!!!!!! & I NEED SOMEONE I FEEL ALONE I SHOULDENT FEEL THIS IM ONLY A 15 YEAR OLD GIRL BUT I NEVER THOUGHT I WOUULD MEET ENY ONE I WOULD GIVE MY HEAFRT TO WE HAVE SOO MYNY MEMORIES TOGETHER!!! I WILL ALWAYS LOVE HIM!
• United States
18 May 07
This really hits home for me. I had a best friend like that and it seems difficult to find that again. She was really my other half and I valued her wisdom a lot. I just think when we are young we need a growing friend. Those friends are there through our stages of puberty and so on. I had to rationalize because, I was too attached to my best friend for a long time. It's hard, I know. Anyways, we also get these maturing friends that help us as we get mature and wiser. I guess in the end, we may get senior friends that hang out with us when we get old and wrinkled. ha....life just keeps on moving....if they stick around then maybe thay are real friends.