Have you cheated?

@Kman64 (102)
United States
May 17, 2007 9:07pm CST
Have you ever cheated on your partner? If so, who was it with and why did you do it? Was it like you thought it would be and would you do it again? Does your partner know or is it your secret?
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4 responses
@sunshine4 (8710)
• United States
18 May 07
I'll be the first to admit that I have cheated on my husband. He does know it now that it is over. We are working threw it and actually have a much stronger relationship now. So this is what happened. There was a lot going on at home. My husband works 6 days a week and would come home and complain about everything from what was for dinner to the fact I didn't clean out the microwave. He was carring his stress from work into the marriage. One day I got a phone call from an ex (like 20 yrs ago ex). I had been running into him lately just to say hi. He is also married. He said that he has never stopped loving me (ok, we actually went on one date). We spoke for a bit and I asked him if he wasn't happy wiht his wife. He said, as long as you are happy that's all that matters. Well, after the call, I was kinda freaked out, but also flattered! I ran into him again about 2 months later and told him that we had to talk about what he said. We met in a local bar and talked. He was very charming! I was very needy. We did nothing but did decide to meet again once a month just to catch up. This was the worst idea we could have had. After a few months, thing started to develop and bam....I am not proud of this time in my life or my actions. Thankfully my husband has forgiven me and we are doing good now. Never again will I let myself get into a situation like that.
• United Arab Emirates
18 May 07
It's good to admit with your guilt but, it was better not to tell anyone about that and keep it on your mind. I'm just saying that on common for all users here not to admit something like that to anyone cause it may be a weak point for bad things...
@smacksman (6076)
27 May 07
Sometimes a problem aired is a problem shared. It is good to talk about these things. Hell, if you can't be honest and truthfull here, where can you be?
@sunshine4 (8710)
• United States
28 May 07
Thank you for your understanding. When you go to counsiling, it is suggested that you don't hold all this junk inside. We have passed this stage and are wonderful. It was a discussion that was started and I thought I would be honest and answer.
• Philippines
19 May 07
Why does everyone like to ask this question? I have no plans of cheating, as any means of doing so is not only offending to your partner, but to one's principles as well.
@Kman64 (102)
• United States
18 Jul 07
People ask this question because people do cheat. You have no plans of cheating but your thought process is not the same as others, that is why it is a question.
@smacksman (6076)
27 May 07
I have had plenty of opportunities to be unfaithful in 37 years of marriage but can say truthfully, with my hand on my heart, that I never been unfaithful to my wife.
@eaforeman6 (8983)
• United States
18 May 07
I have not cheated. Even if someone cheated on me then I still would not cheat because I think you should not be in a relationship if you are a cheater.....