A sign when my friends dislike my guy

Friends Forever - Friend or Love?
Indonesia
May 18, 2007 7:53am CST
I am just passing my sad day of broke up with my bf, and just started to know this guy, But my friends seems dislike this guy. They didn't tell me that they dont like it, I just feel like sometimes I can see the sign of dislike to him.. Actually what sign it is when your friends dislike your guy?
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@anonymili (3138)
18 May 07
Sorry to hear you broke up with your guy but hopefully you'll get over him soon and meet someone much better. There are different reasons why your friends might dislike your guy but I'll try to give you some of the more obvious ones: a) they might feel you are too good for him, you might have a good job or doing well in your education and he might be a high school dropout that your friends might think will bring you down and end up barefoot and pregnant living in a grotty room somewhere infested with cockroaches (over the top I know but it's one reason) b) they might be jealous of the amount of time you're spending with him which means you're spending less time with them - they see it as him stealing you away from them c) they might know something about him but too scared to tell you, like he's got a criminal past, or he's been cheating on him, or even worse - that he's already married to someone else d) he might just not be a very nice person, he's nice to you because you're his gf but he might not make the effort to get along with your friends, maybe because he doesn't know how important they are to you or maybe he just isn't the sociable type, he might see it as "I'm going out with her so why do I need to get on with all of her friends?" e) they might just not like him because they clash. He might be a really nice guy and they might all be really good and nice friends but we can't expect everyone to get along together all of the time. I hope some of the above suggestions help you somewhat. At the end of the day, if you're not with him anymore, try not to be too depressed about it all, time really does heal and in a few weeks or months hopefully you won't even remember him! Good luck x
• Indonesia
18 May 07
Thank you anonymili.. seems you just really undestand me..