distance love hard to keep!!

Macau
July 28, 2006 12:35pm CST
its that distance love will causing men cheat on??
9 responses
@Vulcanik (944)
• Netherlands
26 Oct 06
It might be one of the reasons, yes
• Saudi Arabia
5 Aug 06
hi cristina, as i've read ur discussion... i don't think you need to do that. Waste your time with someone who do not value the love you are giving him. I am not saying that cu'z he's an american, maybe it is really his nature, one thing that you & time can't change anymore. wake up girl, there are lot of good things that you can do. life is short, don't waste it, okay? as i go along with your story, he doesn't care about what you'll feel everytime he cheats you. go out & make friends! u dnt have to get a new boyfriend, friends are enough to heal the pain you have. good friends can surely make you happy and have a better lovelife if you'll just let them. lot of people cares about you... as u can see many of them is trying to point out what you must do, but still the final decision is yours. no one can help you out with that but you. godbless you cristina! (asia)
@rizwan09 (743)
• India
5 Aug 06
DISTANCE LOVE is a best part of life if and only if both are loyal to eachother. but in maximum cases we see that distance love is vain as both cheat eachother,or anyone in both. so try to find a loyal partner for urself. i suggest get married soon instead of making distance love relationships.
• India
31 Jul 06
Thanks for the response, u c naturally it is impossible that distance will cause men cheat " u know upto my experience it never happend my friend is 2000 kms far away from me he is my child hood friend and i always thinks about him, and he does the same, it is friend ship and no cheatings, the same is exists in love, love or lust what ever it may be we cannot forget and we always think about them and it is natural and there is no cheatings, cheating exists around u the people like ur neighbours or ur own town people, but really it is impossible in ur topic
• United States
30 Jul 06
It can be if you dont communicate 100% theres a site called www.lovingyou.com they have support groups there and ideas to spice up what your dealing with! as i am in a LDR myself!! cumminicate, cumminicate,cumminicat is the number1 thing! Goodluck, Sheryl
• India
30 Jul 06
No i thought u r opinion is wrong, if you love a person who is 2000kilometers from you, then the love will increase if it is true, your mind always very close to him. His mind is also always thinking u and u only. It makes to think about u only its love. If u are in the same city then ur mind doesn't have that much of eager ness to see you, bu t when u are very far from your lover then u always tries to get near to her/him, This exists only if it is true love. If you want to see your lover who is very far from you u just close your eyes and he will appear in front of you its nothing but power of mind it travels any where within a second.
• Egypt
29 Jul 06
trust!! far from eye , far from heart
• United States
28 Jul 06
To be honest, if a person is going to cheat, male or female, they are going to cheat whether you are far apart or live in the same house. The same is true if the person is truly dedicated and loves you, you will not be cheated on. Are you worried about a relationship you are in? I hope that distance will not prevent you from entering into a relationship. If you are ment to be, you will be no matter how far apart you are right now.
@sedel1027 (17868)
• United States
28 Jul 06
Not necessarily. If you are in a long distance relationship, the male is no more likely to cheat than the female. I have been long distance relationship where we were open and honest and we did not cheat on each other because we were dedicated to the relationship and to each other. I think people who cheat were going to do it if the other person is there or not because they do not value the relationship. Saying that it was a long distance relationship is an excuse for their bad behavior.