i need help
By yamahagirl
@yamahagirl (415)
May 18, 2007 4:42pm CST
Well i fell out with my family for 7 years now.
They never like my boyfriend dont know why hes great his never hurt me or anything.
well the problem is they just wont leave us alone i have two brothers and one sister,we have had to move a good few times already cause they found us and we had big problems, now im not talking petty stuff here im talking about them putting bricks through my windows sending death threats in cards with newspaper cut outs pictures of coffins one marked for me and my parnter and my little boy there have tryed running us over and im going to stop there this is very stressful for me,ive gone to the police so many times even calles them out when the trouble has been at my door but the police have always been to slow and there reply is theres nothink they can do,just call them if anythink else happens, My husband was attacked just last month my them what can i do?
I just want them to leave me and my family alone, from all they have put me through i now suffer with server depression
im not myself anymore.
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3 responses
@miamilady (4910)
• United States
7 Aug 07
I don't understand why the police can't help you. Of course I don't know the laws in the United Kingdom, but I would guess that you could at least press charges for vandalism, if they threw a brick through your window and assault if your boyfriend was physicially attacked.
I hope your family just gives up and leaves you alone.
Good luck and take care.
I'll never understand why people can't just respect another persons choices. If you choose to be with him and he is not abusing you, than they should respect that.
@yamahagirl (415)
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7 Sep 07
Hi there,
Thanks for your reply the police over here are useless we have got as far as court, they had to pay a fine which has not stoped them.
i dont think they will ever stop cause im not giving my husband up for no one i have 4 kids and one on the way im so happy with him his a great guy he takes good care of me oh well looks like i have to live with it cause the police cant help me who can?
thank you...
@terri0824 (4991)
• United States
11 Jul 07
It's been 2 months since you posted this discussion. I hope that things are going better for you where your family are concerned. I don't understand people who act like this. Even if they think you are wrong with being with the person you are with, two wrongs don't make a right! This is a saying I use with my daughters often.
@yamahagirl (415)
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7 Sep 07
Hi there thanks for your reply,
Your right its been two months now and its still going on i just dont know what to do anymore ive been staying in alot now just so i dont bump in to these people which aint fair i have young kids that need to get out and about i just feel so depressed right now i just want them to STOP.
@joycer (498)
• Sri Lanka
19 May 07
I agree with sunlover. Do you consider moving to other places. Really far from them? This is really scary. We do not know what will happen next. Have you talked to them recently? If I were in your shoes I will communicate with them personally. You have to know why they are they doing these to you. You have to explain to them the situation and everything. If you have close friends you can ask help from them, just so they know what is going on, so that if something happens they know what to do. Do not show them that you are scared of what they are doing to you. The more you suffer , the more they rejoice. Because they want you to see you in pain and sorry for what you have done.
For now, be strong. If your husband can find someone who can accompany him, like an officemate,a friend when walking alone, he may do so. But the decision is still yours. I hope everything will be fine soon.
@yamahagirl (415)
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19 May 07
hi there,
I have not spoken to my family in 8 years now we tryed in the past but these are people you can talk to and on the case of moving ive move from london to kent thought that was far enough, cant move anymore its my kids that i feel sorry for,thanks for your reply.
