Is it my fault or hers?
By hollowheart
@hollowheart (1572)
India
May 19, 2007 12:31am CST
Hi friends. Yesterday i came to know that one of my friends is not keeping well for the last 11 days and is bed ridden. Offcourse immidiately i did contact and also told her what all she needs to do to move out of bed at the earliest. She did respond well. However, most of the times she does not respond to my mails or calls and gives some excuse. Even in such a case she didnt feel she needed to tell me that she was not well. I was hurt by her behaviour.
I dont blame her. Yet i would like to know is it my fault or her fault? Please do suggest if u feel something could be done from my end to imp[rove the relationship.
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4 responses
@sudeshna22 (390)
• India
20 May 07
Dear hollowheart, I think that it is our nature that we can share our happiness with everyone, but our problems with a vew few. So I think, it is neither your fault, nor your friend's. May be your friend does not consider you as her very close friend to share problems. I think she needs more time to understand your feelings for her. But when you got the news of her illness, you really acted as a good friend. So I hope in future, when she will be ill, she will inform you about that. After all relationships are two way traffic. So don't worry, keep your friendship with her and enquire about her as you usualy do. I hope now whe will understand your feelings for her.
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
21 May 07
Sudeshna u r too good. Even my friend was telling me that a women is the best judge for otha a man as well as a women. I really hope ur words come true. Though i would never want her to ever fall sick again. I dont like seeing her undergoing pain and discomfort. It is my duty to make my friends an my near and der ones feel happy even if i have to face pain and shed tears.
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@hollowheart (1572)
• India
21 May 07
mrbranan...i have asked her several times but she never tells that i am wrong or did a mistake.
@eykah13 (437)
• Philippines
19 May 07
I think that you should understand her situation, we all know, that when we're feeling unwell, we are sensitive. So give her some time,. and respect what she wanted,. time will come, all your worries will fade. HAKUNA MATATA. ain't no worry.
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
19 May 07
thank u so much. I am ready to do anything for my friend. I want to see her happy and cheerful always.
She is a very good person at heart.
@hollowheart (1572)
• India
19 May 07
Hi Donsky, i agree with u, however, atleast if she would have told me I would have made her feel better and not suffer for so long. I just spoke to her and she is feeling a bit better than yesterday.
Just pray that she gets well soon.
