What would You Do If You Caught Your Wife Or Your Husband Cheating

@molusk (857)
Philippines
May 20, 2007 7:47pm CST
I have a friend who works as an engineer of an ocean going ship. When he took his work vacation which he did not inform his wife as he was planning to surprise her, he caught his wife making love to another person, in the comfort of their own house. What he did surprised us. He took his wife and the lover of his wife to court. What would you have done if you were in the place of my friend?
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7 responses
• United States
21 May 07
I don't see why that's surprizing, I would do the exact same thing. DIVORCE. End of story. I have no patience for such weakness and disgusting behaviour.
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@molusk (857)
• Philippines
21 May 07
for us men, especially in our place, catching your wife with her lover and making love right in the sanctity of your home is simply a thing that provokes hate akin to the slashing of blades and gunfire
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• United States
21 May 07
Um, that's what I just said, you don't been to inject sexism into it. I was asking why it was suprising that he took them to court. Killing poeple is illegal.
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@molusk (857)
• Philippines
21 May 07
Let me point out that the situation invited for a burst of uncontrollable anger for the common man, sacrificing just so he can remit dollars to her beloved wife whom he caught redhanded playing fire inside their house. The court of law looks kindly to this poor souls who became criminals out of their wives adulterous acts. Sexism is out of the question here.
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• Philippines
21 May 07
i might killed them in time that i saw them. his working for their family then he just caught her wife making love with sumbody else and inside their house. how painful it is for him.
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@molusk (857)
• Philippines
21 May 07
That might had been the normal course of action taken in those circumstances.
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• United States
21 May 07
Dont want to have people ruin their own lives because of the misdeeds of others. It wouldnt even make you feel better in the long run. I have a cousin who did something like that and it ruined a lot of peoples lives besides his own.
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@Anakata2007 (1787)
• Canada
21 May 07
I would have kicked my husband out of the house, and started divorce proceedings the next day.
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@molusk (857)
• Philippines
21 May 07
That would be a good move and a prompt one at that
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• United States
21 May 07
I really can not imagine what I would do. I would just be torn to pieces. In the military it is very common for something like this to happen doesn't make it right but it does. I am really not sure if I would be able to trust my husband or want my husband to even touch me again. The thought of him touching and holding and kissing her the way he kissed and touched me. That is supposed to be intimate things only between me and my husband. You frind might just need to take some time and think about what he really wants and should do. Maybe take some time to himself and think about it.
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@molusk (857)
• Philippines
21 May 07
I would have not thought about that in the military. My friend has now decided to leave the country and settle in the States to begin a new life
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• United States
21 May 07
If I had a husband, and he did that I would throw him out and change the locks!
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@molusk (857)
• Philippines
21 May 07
That would be a nice thing to do, sort of.
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• United States
21 May 07
I probably would have done the same thing. Why does it suprise you that your friend would take them to court? What would you have done?
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@molusk (857)
• Philippines
21 May 07
I could have done even worse. Its good, my friend was a very civil person. He was not given to sudden burst of anger that might have killed his sinful wife and adulterous lover. If you would have done the same thing, then I gladly take off my hat to you, my friend. You are a civil person.
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• United States
21 May 07
I would have done pretty much the same thing. I would have chased them from the house and protected myself and gotten a divorce. I would have been hurt tremendously and I dont think I could easily get over it. I would not blame the new lover though I would blame the spouse.
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