Would you go out with a married man?

@rosycat (168)
May 21, 2007 5:01am CST
Would you date a married man or woman? How would you feel about their partner? Would it be against your moral beliefs? Have you dated a married man/woman and did they leave their partner for you?
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5 responses
@UDDERONES (887)
• United States
22 May 07
Ok at the risk you all will hate me, I did date a married man once. He was always flirting with me and him and his wifes marriage had not been good in years. He did leave his wife for me. Everyone thought it was terrible. One thing is I am younger than him. But what happened, his wife became a Wh@re and slept with everyone. Then she ended up marring a man who wanted to date their daughter. Her husband is way younger than I am but that was ok. If the chance came up again, NO I would NOT date a married man as I would not want my husband cheating on me. But I was young and stupid. Don't get me wrong, I love my husband. But I am saying if someone else's husband wanted to date me now, no way.
@rosycat (168)
22 May 07
thank you for your honesty. Ive also done it, but as you say, I would not do it again.
@jlara_gtr34 (3491)
• Philippines
21 May 07
no, i really wouldnt date a married man because its realy against my principle to do so. i wouldnt like somebody to be dating my man if i was married. i believe in karma so i wouldnt do stuff that i dont want others to do to me also.
@rosycat (168)
21 May 07
thats a good point about karma.
• United States
21 May 07
There are two things I wouldn't do. One is DATE a person I work with and second is date a married man. It's just not the right thing to do. It gets extremely messy, complicated and hurts too many people. To me, if your sites are on a married person and the person is important wait for a divorce, if no divorce then hang it up. It's not worth the pain.
@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
31 May 07
If it will lead to an affair, it's not possible for me to go out with him. I don't want do anything which will probably destroy my marriage. Also I won't hurt anyone's marriage. I always remind myself that I'm married, so it is impossible that I will date with another man.
@arekha72 (56)
• Philippines
27 May 07
oh it'a big no-no for me. if tere's still room for a girl to leave, leave that chance to get involve with a married man. i believe there is that certain guy for everone. i hope so.. bec, i myself been waiting for so long. i could have had but, im kinda feeling "once bitten, twice shy.."