my ex is having a kid and wants me the godmother...!!!

Philippines
May 21, 2007 7:53am CST
we broke up recently, and now has messaged me that he is going to be a dad. ouch. it hurt. undiluted pain. on top of it, he wants bygones be bygones and wants me to be the godmother. unadulterated pain, stabbing. the child could've been mine. and since this is an innocent, i cant help but concede. if you were in my shoes? how would u deal with it?
1 response
@krayzee (1161)
• Romania
21 May 07
I think you should be honest with him and tell him your feelings. That you still hurt thinking about what might have been and to you it feels like he's rubbing it in (by the way, are you sure he's not doing exactly that?). Especially as I don't think the mother of the child is very happy to have you as a godmother either (being a recent ex and all).
• Philippines
21 May 07
yeah i did give him piece of my mind..a lot of sarcasm, cursing and hurt. but i grew tired of hurting and i just wanna let it go. but its the type of hurt that never really does go away..and i am declining the offer. i really see it as an insult:( pple can just be too cruel..