what would u do if u found that ur husband/wife is having a another relationship

May 22, 2007 2:03am CST
would u divorce that person or try to take revenge on the person who did all this or u just try to harm ur husband/wife
7 responses
@mememama (3076)
• United States
24 May 07
I'd divorce him. Revenge would feel nice in the heat of the moment, but it makes me no better than the adultress if I did something.
25 May 07
i think ur right at that moment we might take vengance on him but it makes us no difference than him
• United States
29 May 07
I'd walk away. I always tell my husband that if he cheats, when he comes home he'd better bring the (divorce)papers home with him. He knows thats the nail in the coffin, and he knows I'd walk away. If he still does it knowing that, he deserves a divorce.
@limcyjain (3516)
• India
25 May 07
If i find that my husband has an extamarital relationship i would not like to carry on this relatinship further but before quitting i would certainly like to find out what led him to do so. I love him dearly, take good care of him are sextually satisfied still if he has gone for another women what extra did he find in her. This question would surely linger in my mind and i would like to find an answer to this before my final decision.
@mgmagana (3618)
• United States
28 May 07
he would be gone, i told him revenge would come in the form of a child support check with some spousal on top of that. i wouldn't put up with a man cheating on me, if he wants to be with me than it has to be just me.
@Cassy1976 (796)
• Australia
23 May 07
When I found out that my ex was cheating on me I left and the best revenge I ever got on him was for him to see how happy I am now in a loving relationship....
@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
22 May 07
yes i will divorce him, i will not give him a second chance. I dont want to live with someone i dont trust anymore. if he did it once i am sure he will do that again
@sisan76 (43)
• Singapore
22 May 07
I would move on cause I always believe that if hes not meant to be yours, he will never be.