Moving In...

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So I have been with my boyfriend for the past 6 years. 4 of them were in a serious relationship, then we broke up for a while and have been together again for another year. We have always been faithful and we spend a lot of time together. Well he has been living with roommates for the past 4 years. I have had roommates for 2 years and lived alone for another 2. I spend every Saturday night there on weekends and I tend to come over quite often or he comes over at my place. I feel we spend so much time together, and I am just tired of driving over to his place all the time, dealing with his roommates because I don't always come there to see them, I just want to spend time with him...cuddling up to a movie, or being able to go out to dinner alone with him without the overbearingness I get from them that they always have to be there, or he feels bad just leaving them alone. Gas is now $3.26 a gallon and he just doesn't want to drive to see me as much even though we don't live that far apart. I know I am still young but I am at about that point in my life where I really just want him to move in with him. He keeps kind of going back and forth with what he wants. I am tired of always going over there, but he doesn't always want to come here. I told him I can only wait so long for him to be ready for such a committment and that if being with him meant that I had to wake up alone every day for the next five years I just didn't want to do it anymore. I don't want to be selfish either, so I am stuck with knowing what to do next. His lease is up with his roommates and he was considering just moving into an apartment by himself. I feel with that amount of time I spend with him, the driving I do every time back and forth, and he does and the times we carry all our crap over to eachother's house to spend extended days and time together, it's just a waste of my money to spend hundreds to have a seperate place. I know he's a quiet guy that likes his own space and I am the same exact way. he said we'll talk about the living situation soon, so I'm wonderin what's the best way to get the best of both worlds.