Will you accept it or refuse it?

China
May 24, 2007 5:36am CST
Have you ever met a situation like this? A person who loves you but you don't love him in return. Yet, he is quite a good person and you don't want to hurt him and dare not say "no, I don't love you". What should be done?
4 responses
@lynboobsy11 (11346)
• Philippines
25 May 07
-yes i had met a situation like that. a guy courted me for 6 months even if i had a boyfriend he was still there just waiting for me to love him, i tried to discourage him earlier but even if i am dicouraging him, he is still courting me, im afraid to tell him i dont love him because i feel something for him, but that doesnt mean i love him the way he loves me. so i better tell him that i love him rather than hurting him by saying no.
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@ricknkae (1726)
• United States
24 May 07
what should be done ? the right thing would be to tell the truth if you don't love him, you shouldn't force yourself to it's not fair to him anyway Just don't tell him bluntly be nice and understanding, you can say something like "you are very dear to my heart but not in that way" or " I do care a lot about you but not in the same way as you do" ... just be truthful and I am sure the words will com e to true
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@emmanna (97)
• Egypt
24 May 07
well maybe we can be afriends maybe i can help him to find the perfact girl to him to make that up for him but maybe if iam afree this time and dont have any one why not lets try maybe he is the one looking for you didnt know some one care about your feelings so hard to find
@nisha143 (93)
• India
24 May 07
If i will be in place of you i will say it htat i would like to be your friend but not lover,because i always seen a good friend in you,hope you understand... Do you know wat i dont belive in love it was only in films not in real life,in real life there is flirting more than love so i dont think there is love, but some where in my heart i do belive there is love why i too dont know........
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