help me please i put my self in a real trouble...........
May 24, 2007 7:09pm CST
hi all of you guys well am in a real trouble i make some one full in love with me and i have a relationship with some one else i dont know what to do here is my story my boy seems to be busy all the time in his work he work in two time so we about 2 years now in love but recently i start to feel a little bored so i had a chat with some one for the first time having chat wity some one just to keep me busy in this time me and my boy were having a bad time so i went through a long chat with the other guy and we used to talk every day and ifound my self waiting him in night to talk and i found too that actually i start to like him i dont know how it happen one day he came in chat and told me about his new girl an dhe start to talk about her so i felt little jealous and told him well i am your friend too and you should care about me any way finally he told me that he full in love with me and he will do any thing to make me happy we and he will leave his religion for me if i want and he told me he know that i have this feelings for him to and he sure actually i told every thing i was thinking about him and i like him but i told you i have some one in my life and i fell like am cheating on him i dont wonna do that we cant talk any more cause i love my guy i realized we just have a bad times but its too late he completly love me now and i dont wonna break his heart i care about his feeling i dont wonna him to Suffering so please all of you guys think with me what ican do to end this without any hurt.......
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25 May 07
There is no way to get out of this in a non-hurtful manner, someone will get hurt. You need to make a decision, and you have to choose quickly. You should have taken a break or broke up with the present man, and taken time to think. I really think that its good for you to try and get this resolved quickly. If you love this other man, then you don't need to stay with your current man.
25 May 07
hii emman i do not feel like you cheat on your boy but you must end that relation with the other guy and do not talk to him any more but are you sure you don't have any feeling to him? i hope that you well fix things with your boy and live a happy days and not be bored again
25 May 07
You have to choose between them as soon as you can because you can't let your boyfriend keep on thinking that everything's okay between you two. At the same time, you can't let the other guy keep hoping that you will break up with your boyfriend so that you can be with him. You will continue feeling hurt and troubled if you don't resolve this quickly. You also have to be considerate of the others who are involved in what you did. What you could do is to stop yourself from talking to either of them for a few days up to a week. Explain to them that you need to think for a bit. Try to see who you really have feelings for then tell it to both of them. Don't just break it off without any explanations and without them hearing the truth. They both deserve that, at the very least. ^_^