EVIL COMMUNICATIONS CORRUPT GOOD MANNERS

@ssh123 (31073)
India
October 23, 2006 1:48am CST
I attribute this to modern day mothers who have no time to mould their children and they are exposed to so many evils and tomorrow these children pose a threat to the society. What is your opinion on this? Please narrate it with one or two instances.
2 people like this
5 responses
@Sunset50 (1397)
• United States
9 Nov 06
I stayed home and raised my two children. They always knew I would be there when they came home from school and that they could sit down and talk about the day with me. I taught them the values of mine and my husband and we both took the time to explain why we had those values. It was important to us to teach them morals, right from wrong, manners, and respect of others. Once they started to school it was harder since they heard so much other things we didn't agree with. I think if we are going to bring new life in the world, one or the other parent should be there with them to guide and protect them from the influences of the world, especially when they are very young. We are responsible for those we create.
1 person likes this
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
10 Nov 06
We are not only responsible for those we create, sometimes circumstances make us to be responsible for those created by others like friends of our children. You said it so beautifully and a solid example, I only hope that several mothers who complain about their children should just read and draw a leaf or two, so that this particular problem will not be there anymore. Thanks once again for a good response.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
25 Nov 06
Your response has been adjudged as the best response. Congratulations.
• India
16 Jan 07
I agree with this point that mother is very much responsible for all child behaviour because child is more close than father . yes as a mother i have a responsiblity to close watch to our child ,how they behave , how they react , to whom she/he like to play like that . child is so tender , u can mould his/her as u want . if u provide good company , good moral , explain which is good for him always be good for society . but parents who do not bother about all these things and busy with own life and just fullfil all need of child , that child may be became threat to society .
1 person likes this
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
17 Jan 07
That is the reason, there should be eleders at home to guide the grand children.
@pkps1968 (415)
• India
25 Nov 06
Yes The modern mothers are not taking interst in the future of their children Firstly the way of taking secondly the way of behavours Thirdly the open relaions. Since I am from Kerala but staying at delhi, I can see entair difference the cultures.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
25 Nov 06
You are very correct in your observations. Compared to western countries, our family systems are very good. But unfortunately, the parents (both start working), they come home tired and do not have time for children. The upbringing is suffering.
• Singapore
20 Dec 06
First of all.. why its attribute only to the mothers? not a father? I thought the responsibility to take care of children divided to both mother and father.. True that modern mother nowadays dun really have time to mould their children like the mother in the old times.. but last time female are not educated and they didnt work.. They just depend on their husband for everything... And to bring up the children it takes two and not only the mother.. I do encourage women to work.. even it means less time to spend with their children.. true that parents must think bout their children.. but doesnt mean the must let go their dreams and happiness.. Women should work so they can stand on their own.. they dun need to depend on their husband for anything.. maybe guys will see it as selfish.. and i do understand most of the guys prefer women who are weaker so it wont hurt their ego.. However.. if the woman not working.. and suddenly the guy have an affair.. what the woman supposed to do? depend on the husband and cry everyday? worst scenario.. the husband passed away.. what she will do if she dun have work? how she fed her children? people.. just blame the mother for working and dun have time for their children.. but i do believe most of the mother who are working know they made the right decision.. what count is not how long you can spend time with ur children.. but how you teach ur children and do some time management with your spouse.. cuz mother's love is just not enough... cheers ^O^
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
20 Dec 06
Very nicely analysed in your lengthy response. I fully endorse your view.
• United States
11 Dec 06
i think it is on both the parents not just the mother a father should be just as involved it takes two to make the child. So it should take two to mold their child.
1 person likes this
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
11 Dec 06
YOu are right. In india the bringing up a child rests by and large rests with the mother, because the man breadwinner goes for the job will be back only in the night. Most of womenfolks are housewives and hence the responsibility of bringing up a child rests with her. However, in the present day context, we can say (as suggested by you) the responsiblity rests with the parents. I agree with your views.