long distance relationship what do you think?what can u suggest to work out...
May 29, 2007 9:15am CST
i know a lot of long distance relationship and its really hard to work it out they always end in breaking up...do u have any suggestions to work it out?
29 May 07
long distance relationship i don't think that working out any relationship is difficult when you really want to work it out. In my opinion any relationship if it has to continue, requires effort to work it out. In case of long distance relationship I agree the efforts put in are little bit higher but you see its your heart and not your mind which keeps you attached with your relationships. If you want to carry forward the relationship you have made then you constantly have to give time to that relationship because apart from love and care relationships also require this significant ingredient "time". You need to devote your attention because that is what it has the word "long" in long distance relationships really touches its physical meaning if there is not time devoted to your pal with whom you are into that relationship. But things are in your control and you give that required attention to your bonding then the word "long" is just a word but in reality its makes the relation more merrier and loving to have.
29 May 07
About this matter I can suggest you some things that can help you. You can write letters,send voice tapes, or customized message CD's for each other, or you can always send e-mails,send text messages in your cellphone coz we know calling is too much higher than texting. If you don't worry about telephone bills, make telephone conversations with him priority. Don't ever try to tell him it took you some time to send him a letter because you still had do to some important matters. As much as possible,put off other things and make phone talk to with him your top priority. Always strive to be hapy and positve in your letters and phone conversations. Being away from home is already a stressful situation for him. It makes him sad and homesick. Don't make it worse by negative or skeptical tone of voice in your letter or conversation with him.