Women Vs. Lame excuses

Canada
May 29, 2007 11:54am CST
So here I am trying to get a date with a lady. It's a blind date, and we haven't even talked on the phone yet. So I show up on time where we were supposed to meet, and she doesn't. It turns out she was... get this "Suntanning for 10 minutes and got heat stroke" Also, I have an earlyer post where I was going on a date with a younger lady. She promiced me a date, but when it came down to the date itself it was... "Too wierd to go out with me" Has anyone elce come across the stupid lame excuses?
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@nurhoney (1123)
• Philippines
29 May 07
i know some women give lame excuses just to avoid going out with the guy. i dont know whats up with them...i mean, if i dont want to go out with that guy, i would just tell him straight and not let him think that iam interested in him by saying "ok, lets go on a date" and then later on give some lame excuses to go off the hook. i know some people who always find some lame escuses...wish they will just grow up!
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• Canada
29 May 07
I would have alot more respect for people in general if they did the same. I don't care if people don't want to date or whatever, you don't need to come up with some lame excuse to get out of it.
• Malaysia
29 May 07
sometimes most women do it not to hurt the other person.. let's not have double standards, guys do it to women a lot too.. have you ever had to be in a situation where you had to tell the truth that you're not interested in a guy? well, i have told the truth and it wasn't taken lightly by the guy.. he got mad and very immature.. so i wonder, who should be the one to grow up??
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• Canada
30 May 07
Excelent point. I guess it does varry from person to person. Thank you for your view
@mean_queen (1713)
• Malaysia
29 May 07
Well, i've had my share of giving lame excuses.. and i admit, the truth was actually simple; i didn't wanna go on with the date.. however, i've NEVER did it to stand a guy up! i'd date him first and if i don't feel like we have anything in common, that's when all the lame excuses come out.. =P
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• Canada
30 May 07
I see where you're coming from, but I have been and probably will be a very open person. I find it so much easyer and respectful to just say the truth. Sure it may hurt, sure there may be consiquences, but I personally am willing to deal with them.