problems with love?

love - love marriage
@spec71 (796)
United States
May 31, 2007 11:13am CST
what do you think is the main problem associated with love marriage?
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7 responses
• United States
31 May 07
Marriage is about communication and compromise and realizing you cant hold in everything you have to work as a team! Most of the marriage breakups i know of happened due to lack of communication! But there are also those who think they own the other person when they get married and that isnt right either!!! You have to maintain your own seperate identities even though you are married you cant totally be one all the time you still have to be you!!!
@spec71 (796)
• United States
4 Jun 07
nice answer mate...thanks...that was an useful piece of info...
@Mitraa (3184)
• India
5 Jun 07
According to me, the main problem associated with love marriage is that the persons in love and willing to marry, add too much emotions to their love affairs and make it a unidirectional decission of them. They blindly avoid the wishes of their superiors in their own families and develop a feeling of rivalry for who questions or denies such affairs. This is the result of excessive addition of emotion to their affairs. Thus love marriage is converted to a marriage that I may call 'Hurt marriage' in which hearts of many family members are really hurt and ignored. So I may say love with your intellect, not with emotion that over-casts your conscience and hurts the feeling of superiors. Thanks.
@ameryl (26)
• Philippines
31 May 07
there are many reasons but maybe i can share a few,one of them is when you fall out of love because of many reasons,like indifferences,and incapacity to fulfill the vows that you've both promised to each other,financial problems and most of all your no longer happy and inlove with him/her!!!
@ela2pso (364)
• Philippines
31 May 07
perhaps it could be a problem with their incompatible personalities and beliefs... or else another main problem might be... if one doesnt know the truth of feelings that she/ he holds for her/his partner that will turn our to... "falling out of love." thats all i think so enjoy mylot!
@myahw20 (1115)
• Canada
31 May 07
hmm i guess it still depends what kind of persons are involved right? but usually...the biggest problem is not having LOVE itself.. cause otherwise, no matter what the problem is it will be easy to resolve...
• United States
31 May 07
The main problem that we all face is our own self centeredness. We are more concerned about our own wants rather than trying to serve the other person. If it gets out of hand it can lead to the destruction of the relationship.
@jolly223 (73)
• United States
31 May 07
It is hard to point out one exact "main problem" with love and marriage. I guess if we all knew what "the problem" was then we would all be concious of it. marriage is hard work. once the honeymoon is over the work begins.