Can a woman love 2 men?

@tuhpaul (475)
India
May 31, 2007 1:56pm CST
A woman(with due respect to all women) has the mental strength of loving 2 men at the same time.How relevant is it?
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emckee
@emckee (465)
• United States
31 May 07
This has happened to me. But it's so wrong. If you THINK you love two men, just let one of them go! Don't even mention it to the one you let go, just do it. Not only is it not fair to either guy you have feelings for, it is a spiritually and emotionally turbulent experience, especially with being the maternal beings that we are. AND, if you cannot decide on one or the other, WALK AWAY. Be alone! There is nothing wrong with being an independent woman. And last but not least, if you THINK you love two men at the same time, or if a man thinks he loves two women at the same time, especially if you are married, you DO NOT! If you cannot stay loyal, and you THINK you love two people, you only love yourself. Chances are, one or the other is good ol' fashion infatuation.
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tuhpaul
@tuhpaul (475)
• India
1 Jun 07
Thank you, it seems you understood my topic very well.It also seems that you are a loyal being.Your partner might be very lucky.
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emckee
@emckee (465)
• United States
1 Jun 07
Aww, you're welcome! And thank you, that's sweet. My mom taught me well.
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vampoet
@vampoet (825)
• Singapore
31 May 07
As long as she does ness itz fine. I have a friend who loves a couple of guy friends but she is happily attached...
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tuhpaul
@tuhpaul (475)
• India
1 Jun 07
Now now,you did not say about its relevance.Anyways thank you
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Lydia1901
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
2 Jun 07
Well, I still ask myself that question at all times. But, I am thinking more about if a man can love two women at the same time. I have been in relationships where I got cheated on and the man claims that he loved me and the other person equally. All I can say about that is the love that you have for each person is different. I mean you bond to love one person more than the other one. At least, that is how I see it. I am not really sure.
tuhpaul
@tuhpaul (475)
• India
2 Jun 07
My dear friend Lydia,I am a man,and to be honest I feel that it is not possible to love(in the true sense) two women at the same time equally.A man I feel can love one sincerely while have 'fun' with the other woman.A man is an animal at times.I am sorry to hear about you being cheated.Take my advice,friend,DON'T GIVE YOUR MIND TO ANY ONE FULLY TILL YOU ARE CONVINCED THAT HE REALLY FEELS,CARES AND LOVES YOU TRUELY. Best of luck and God bless you.