I have started hating him now.....,...

@subha12 (18462)
India
June 1, 2007 12:37am CST
I may have told this to you before. Once I had a friend.He was very good to me at that point of time. I also accepted him as my good friend. But after some time scenario changed.He suddenly proposed me. I declined him as i did not had the same feelings.Still he persuded me. But we were Ok as friend. after that too he started avoiding me. As he used to avoid me, i also kept mum. I thought while he does not want to keep contact why should I? Again he came back from Bangkok after a trip of 1 month. He has hardly contacted me over mail or phone while he was here. After he returned i also did not talk much with him. He took me to a lake side and made me believe him that he was very busy to contact me. That time i believed him. But after that also when i shifted to another city, we were initially on good contact over phone. After that he again started avoiding. For last 3-4 months, its nearly no contact with him. Initially i felt very bad for it. After that i have made up my mind that when he don't care, why should I? Still say about in 7-8 days he used to ping me over chat or i used to. But for last 15 days, neither i have called him or contacted on chat. Now i really think he is a cheater who needed my help at that time.So he used to tell that he loves me. I have started hating him now....
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@subathra (3519)
• India
1 Jun 07
Well this guy started avoiding you mainly because you have not accepted his love.It may be one reason.If you would have accepted his love things would have been different. Actually you were good at him as you wanted to be his friend always.Hope he doesnot deserve your friendship.I think its time to move on forgetting whatever he did with you..
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@Rozie37 (15505)
• Turkmenistan
1 Jun 07
Whatever you feel that he has done to you, there is no reason to hate him now. Consider him a learning tool that has helped you to grow and move on. We can not force people to be what we want or think they should be, we have to accept him for who they are. The least he is is unstable and you do not want a man that you can not count on to be there when you need him. Let him go, you deserve better than him. When you hate however, you are only hurting yourself. He does not know how you feel and judging from what you said, he would not care even if he did know.
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@Lydia1901 (16354)
• United States
3 Jun 07
Well, I am so sorry that happened to you. Sometimes there are good friends and bad friends. You just got to pick, choose and keep the good ones.