long distance relationship

United States
June 2, 2007 2:56am CST
alright. to make a long story very short. I met a my fiance.. he was going to school in Arizona. Where I have lived since I was 4. He got done with school and asked me to move to Oklahoma (where he is from, family etc.) I did for two years. After those two years I moved back to Arizona so I could be with my family. He is still in Oklahoma, will not be moving out here until July. He flew out here to visit me about 3 weeks after I moved back out here. He says since I moved with him, that he would do it for me. I am having a hard time with the long distance relationship part. Does anyone have any advice on this? I love him to pieces. He means everything to me. But these last 2 months have been going by slowly, and I am feeling pretty sad..
4 responses
@gr8life (6251)
• Malaysia
3 Jun 07
I just get married for less than a year when my husband need to go back to his country. So I was left alone with my baby son. It was hard for me to accept it at first. I love him so much that I can't accept the long distance separation. It makes me feel sad. I cry a lot. Whenever I look at our baby, I will cry. I always think of him, day and night. Whenever I am alone, I will start counting the days when I will be seeing him again. I stopped doing that after a few months. I make myself busy with my job and house chores. I go out to meet friends and make sure that I always be around my family members. I talk to my husband every night since last December. The only thing that makes me feel better is that, I will see him again this August. I am waiting for the day when my son and I will be united with him again!
@Aurone (4755)
• United States
2 Jun 07
Call him a lot. You only have a month left which I know doesn't help. I don't think I could do a long distance relationship. Would drive me nuts. Maybe you could go see him or he could come see you? A visit always helps and you can get some pretty cheap flights these days. Anyways good luck and I wish you the best.
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
I think both of us needs an advice. Like you, I'm also experiencing a long distance realationship and it sucks!! I can't feel him anymore. Anyways, I wish you guys will be much stronger.
@Gerlie (7)
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
it's so sad to hear that from you. I've been thru that once. To be realistic, absence really makes the heart grow fonder, in some cases. Why don't you try a heartily talk to him. Make him aware of the pain you've been going thru. You should meet halfway.