Would you go to your bestfriend's wedding?

Philippines
June 2, 2007 5:27am CST
Here's the dilemma, you love your bestfriend but he/she doesn't know it.
13 responses
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
20 Feb 09
Hello carlynganda! I would probably not attend my bestfriend's wedding if ever I have one. I am the kind of person who can't control my tears and if I feel bad, my tears would suddenly fall down. It would be shameful if people would see me crying...hahaha
@guruguru (14)
• China
27 May 08
and the most important i will never let this kind of situation come out.because if i love her i will tell her,if she has already had a boyfriend or got married just blessing her.
@jengrin (944)
• Philippines
2 May 08
It already happened to me 10 years ago. It hurts to see the one you love marry to another girl. But inviting you to their wedding is already showing you that you are important. In my case he even know I like him but still I'm glad he invited me to witness their wedding vows. I attended the celebration though I admit it really hurts. And try my best to happy for him. Now we're still bestfriends. He has 4 kids and I'm getting married next year. And he even volunteer to be ur bestman.
@maehan (1439)
• United States
2 Jun 07
For my thought, yes, of course, I will be happy to see my best friend happy although there will be a mix feeling.
@guruguru (14)
• China
27 May 08
never,how can you bear it??maybe drink alone at home wishing she will be happy.
@ava1982 (12)
• China
2 May 08
yes, i think i would . that's no why .just to hear my heart. if he really happy ,that's enough for me .
@a1legend (216)
• India
2 Jun 07
yes i like to go i want to see my friend happy
2 Jun 07
I agree with the person above. If they are your best friend your main concern should be their happiness, not yours. I would go to the wedding and i would buy them an amazing gift. ;]
@swatig (1183)
• India
2 Jun 07
if this happen to me, iam not able to go to his/her wedding as im in love and i not want to do anything which can even come to knw anybody to know my feeling for her/him, coz if this happens, there may spoil his weeding party and his/her mood and even feeling for friend.
@djmarion (4898)
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
if my opinion counts i would say yes, i will go to my bestfriend's wedding nomatter how i love him, besides what good it will give me if i won't, i wont make him cancel his wedding right? so i will go to his wedding and witness the vow just to remind myselfthat he's already taken...
• United States
2 Jun 07
The real question is how you feel about their union. If you know that they are marrying a good person who is right for them and who will love them, then give them your blessing and go. But if you feel like they're marrying the wrong person, then talk to them--but quickly. Don't wait till the day of the wedding.
• India
2 Jun 07
i would say yes as i want to see my bestfriend happy no matter how much it will be painful for me.
@Jhymz08 (40)
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
I will surely go to the wedding. That is if I am invited. But I will not accept any invitation to be her Best Man. It will hurt but eventually I can overcome it.