how would you heal a broken heart?

Philippines
June 2, 2007 11:27am CST
how would you heal a broken heart when all you did was your best and love the person, put in a pedestal...
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5 responses
• India
2 Jun 07
When you love someone you give your best and love the person. But sometimes your heart is broken. Time alone will heal the broken heart. Find a new person who understands you and enjoy your life.
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
loving a person means that you accept all of their faults and if that person never responds to you despite all the efforts you give dont hesitate to stand up and be heard. Have the courage to let go. Loving one's self first heals the wound that was left of a broken heart.It makes you whole again and in time you'll find a love that will give happiness in return.
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
in love there is no boundery. falling in love is the day you start over. Enjoyig life and love would be your goal. fill your heart with love and the scars of a broken heart heals.
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
thank you for the comment on my post. You have touched me, I feel so sure that what I have decided in my past relationship to move on gave me great opportunities in love and in life. Its true, it makes you a better person once you realize you have to enjoy and love yourself you'll soon find the right person for you. Bear in mind that there is always a way to mend a broken heart. Go out have fun, soon you'll find yourself whole again ready to love and beloved in return.
@lauriefnp (5113)
• United States
4 Jun 07
I'm sorry you're going through this. I'm sure that almost every person here has had to deal with a broken heart at one time or another, and it's not fun and it's never easy. Only time will heal you. Keep busy, be good to yourself, and spend time with friends and family. Don't dwell on the good times, as they are gone; and don't try to "invent" bad things to think about him, because then you will find yourself stuck in the anger and bitterness. Just allow yourself to feel what you feel. It will get better- in time.
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
Making myself wothwhile helps me, thanks for the comments greatly apprciate it. It sure helps to keep myself busy whenever I feel sad and angry. Hope to hear from you soon and your advice too. Please dont forget to add me. Thank you and God Bless.
• Philippines
2 Jun 07
you just gotta stop thinking about it. keep yourself distracted and in time the pain will lessen. of course you can never fully heal a broken heart but that shouldnt stop you from trying to lessen its effects right?
• Philippines
4 Jun 07
thank you very much. Hope to be your friend and we could exchange advices. Really, time heals all wounds and scars of the past. But is it true that only love itself can heal a broken heart? Some people fall in love again and again and again and get hurt but still they choose to fall in love. Maybe that the irony of life.
@healwell (1271)
• Ahmedabad, India
27 Jun 07
By asking these questions: Your heart is broken or your drsires are avoided? Your heart is broken or your expectations are not fulfilled? Your heart is broken or your want is not considered? Have you thought about all such? well, you loved the person and he just went away from your life ... And you broken? Your love has not capacity to keep you unbroken? Just think about all these and i hope that your healing will be started by seeingin these mirrors around you! And surely you are going to find that nothing is broken and you have the capacity to face the things and reality!
@Ashrafm (16)
• Egypt
27 Jun 07
There is nothing like a broken heart and because so many people talk about that i think it really lost its importance. I have met people who had a broken heart and i know very well personally how it feels. You suddenly realize that WOW .. i dont deserve that. But i have another philosophy... Whatever doesnt kill you makes you stronger. Whoever breaks my heart i move on, i move on with all the memories and everything and just leave it inside... but trust me, in the middle of the deepest and darkest moments in our lives... when the night comes and you think that "my heart is broken" - at this moment there is a new YOU. A person who is far more stronger, far more happier and Wayy better is ready to embrace a better life. Its an experience and its over - and its that moment that changes everything - you live life!