what do you say to a friend whose husband has just left her?
• Lancaster, New Hampshire
2 Jun 07
truthfully there really is nothing you can say. you are already doing the best thing you can. Listening and being there. And you should continue to do so. this really is the best role you can play right now. be that shoulder, that ear, that pat on the back. Just keep doing what your doing. I know it will never feel like enough but it really is all you can do.
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• United States
2 Jun 07
As your doing all you can do now. Just remember it will take her time to heal. Don't ask too many questions or make her feel like she can't cope. Your a good friend and thats what will pull her through tis. She will soon see she is blessed. He like in the sky is her daughter. She won't be this way forever. let her lean on your shoulder and cry and laugh it over years from now.