does crying makes you feel alright?

@roniroxas (10576)
Philippines
June 5, 2007 1:10am CST
are you the kind of person who cries.... just to make it feel alright? or you are the type that talks or speak up just to make it feel alright?
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16 responses
• Saudi Arabia
12 Sep 07
I don't cry in public I hate to be seen crying.. and I don't talk about things that make me sad.. for me if I was hurt I just write it or draw it on a paper then through it away... I envy people who can cry I think crying can make you feel better but won't solve any problem... thanks for the interesting post :)
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@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
12 Sep 07
thats a nice way on disposing your sadness or anger. i think people should have a attitude like yours. quarelling or having a quarell or crying will really cant solve anything. i think crying can really help but crying all the time is very irritating. thanks for the response a + rate for your response
@jHoEn16 (2043)
• Australia
12 Sep 07
i am talkative but when it comes to complicated things, i better cry to make me feel better... i dont have the guts to talked... i dont know but i am always crying lately. i get too emotional that everytime my husband ask i just say nothing i just cried coz i feel like crying... silly divah
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
13 Sep 07
yes i understand. thats your middle initial S for silly.... joke. well you are not in another country so you are going to experience that. its okay to cry it will make you feel better.
@jHoEn16 (2043)
• Australia
15 Sep 07
hahahahaha i know...... i am trying to fight for this but blame my eyes they release tears that easy.. i think i have to put some tape on it when i feel like crying hahahaha
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
17 Sep 07
wow why not be a dramatic actress instead?.... what you think of that idea?
• United States
4 Oct 07
I don't know how crying makes me feel as I was always taught growing up that men are not supposed to cry, so I don't. However, during those times when I "feel" like crying, it definitely makes me feel better. When I watch a movie, sometimes I actually do get sentimental and feel tears welling up in my eyes, and occasionally one drops!
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
5 Oct 07
as what i heard is boys dont cry but men do. so why be ashame or scared to cry. your human so its okay.
• Indonesia
29 Sep 07
Yes, roniroxas, crying its sometimes the only way to trash all sadness and dissapointment inside my hearth, but im not gonna stop just like that, Im grow up and, i will find the way to clear that mess and cheer my self up. So pathetic if i stop only just one sad feeling that is sadnnes. People will see me as a sad person, aren't you agree?
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
5 Oct 07
yes dont be a sad person. cry for a reason then make sure you fix the mess and solve the problem at hand. thanks for the response.
@fab315 (1242)
• Philippines
28 Sep 07
Hello! I'm a cry baby, my tears are very shallow but for me it depends on the situation. When i'm having an argument with someone, I'd rather talk than cry in front of that person. As much as possible I don't want that person to see me crying especially when I know i'm right. I always want to give an impression that i'm strong when i'm in an argument but the moment I stop talking, tears would fall down my cheeks. Between talking and crying, I reckon that crying makes me feel better afterwards. There are times when i'm down and sad, I'd rather be alone and cry than feel okay after. There are times as well that when I have problems and I would be crying while talking to my friends. Everytime i'm sad and have a problem I always say that it's no big deal, i'll just cry then i'll be alright. *smile* ciao! c",)
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
5 Oct 07
i think thats ok to not cry in front of a confrontation coz you might lost focus. cry later will be a great idea. thanks for the response
@beaniegdi (1966)
22 Sep 07
I have found over the years that the times when I am under the most stress and tired tha I am more likely to cry. However I do believe that it is a good idea to talk problems over to make them right again.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
very well said, if you want to cry then cry but make sure while you are pouring yourself out think of a way how to solve a problem. it would really make you feel better if you have something in your mind that will solve it. thanks for the response
@luisivy (68)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
for me no..... i've always wanted to cry everytime i am down. i'd rather speak up than spending my time crying.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
i think thats a good attitude. speak up and say whats on your mind. thanks for the response
@seabeauty (1481)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Oh I definitely feel so much better after I have a good cry. Crying releases the stress I am feeling at the moment. I think there is actually some chemical that is released from the body when you cry.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
yeah, i remember my friend he once told us crying is lying pee, when you release it, it will make you feel better. thanks for the response
@youless (90498)
• Guangzhou, China
20 Sep 07
No, crying doesn't make me feel better or feel released. On the contrary, I will feel worse after that. But there is no other way, I can't help crying when I am sad.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
20 Sep 07
i have a cousin who is like you.... she cant help to cry but it just make her feel worst. so as much a s she can she control the feeling of crying for it will not make any help anyway. thanks for the response
@Aneihs (66)
• Philippines
12 Sep 07
Crying lifts your mood. Crying releases endorphins which are hormones that act as both mood elevators and pain killers. That’s why you feel much better after crying.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
12 Sep 07
yes that is true but after crying it all out we should do something to make everything ok
• United States
5 Jun 07
I don't think crying solves anything. When there's a situation where I feel like crying, I do so in my own private time; I feel embarassed and uncomfortable crying in public. I'll usually cry by myself for awhile to release my emotions and all those happiness endorphins (naturally, it makes me feel better), but then I'll actually do something to solve the problem that caused me to cry in the first place.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
hi honey, nice user name. well crying is but natural we are humans. but yes, crying cant solve anything we should try to talk it over or solve it. after crying do something to change the situation or atleast talk about it. thanks for the response
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
after crying and saying all my heart aches to someone..it makes me feel alright! i feel like my burdens are already gone with the wind!
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
yeah thats a good thing to do also, thanks for the response
@squaretile (3833)
• Singapore
5 Jun 07
I think crying is cathartic. It helps with the release of emotions. Too much pent-up emotion is unhealthy. That said, I don't cry often. When I'm angry I'll make my feelings known and communicate it. Then the issue can be resolved. Crying is a good way of releasing emotions but it might not solve problems. (: cheerio!
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
yes when im angry im like you i would rather talk about it than crying about it. now if after talking problems still wasnt solve then its the time to cry....lol. thanks for the response
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
Yeah I do. When I get caught up in a conflict or a confrontation, I would just take off and do some good crying. It eases the pain in my chest. I feel like my chest is gonna explode if I don't cry. When I'm done, that's when I come out and face the problem or whatever it is that is bugging me head on.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
yes i agree facing the problem after a good cry is a good attitude than just crying and doing nothing. thanks for the response
@angela2006 (1846)
• China
5 Jun 07
I did not cry for a long time.when I was a child,I was fond of crying,if only I feel upset I would cry.but now,after grown up,I seldom cry.actually,I think crying is good for our body.sometimes,I feel depressed,then if I cried I will feel better.it can release our stress.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
6 Jun 07
hahaha yeah as a chiold i am also a cry baby, crying over about everything as if you can get anything when you cry. lol. well crying is good but it can not solve anything. thanks for the response
@hopejordan (3566)
• Australia
23 Nov 07
hi there roniroxas when i cry i do feel better after thanks for this discussion