What do you do if your bf flirts with you and still wants to flirt with others?

Philippines
June 5, 2007 12:29pm CST
Men are born polygamous. what would you do if your boyfriend tells you he loves women? and Respects women? would you believe he really respects women if he flirts with many and ignore you you sometimes and tell you he is busy when he is not really busy? And inspite of all he is still there keeping you? What would you do?
2 responses
• United States
5 Jun 07
Well, I pretty much think everybody flirts with everybody, and I think that's okay. It all depends on what your definition of flirting it. Some think it's just when you're simply playing around with someone else, I think that's okay. The kind of flirting where you are trying to get that person interested in you is the kind that you need to watch out for. Don't be too harsh and strict on this little flirty gig. If he's around you and ignores you to flirt with others, then I would get pretty upset..it's really simple, talk to him.
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• Philippines
6 Jun 07
You are right everyone is a flirt here and i think it's okay to flirt but what's important he is there when you want him to be with you.. but there are times that hejust can't because of some reasons he says he needed to do things and to be alone.... well whatever his reasons are although sometimes it's pretty obvious he is just making alibis... would be acceptable if you really like/love him right? The fact that his is still there and still connects with you mean he is interested with you... and ohhh by the way he respects me a lot and wont want to do dirty things or talk just for fun...i feel he is a true friend but i mightbe just expecting too much from him... so i am giving him the benefit of the doubt.... coz i care and want him a lot... thanks for your comment....
@olyngurl (149)
• Philippines
5 Jun 07
If ever my boyfriend would do that I will kill him.. He would not hear anything from me instead I will leave him alone.. I know they are polygamous in nature.. but it's not acceptable...
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• Philippines
6 Jun 07
yes thanks for your comment.. That is true i feel i want to kill him but I cant coz he can hide behind his computer. I am leaving him alone and i'm fed up and do'nt wantto waste time with him again...