There's always one!

@latsmom (824)
June 5, 2007 4:09pm CST
In my experience i have noticed that although sometimes you can do everything possible to be freindly to people that no matte rhow much you try there is always one person you just can't take to. You don't know why at that point but you just take a dislike and sometimes it works in reverse where someone takes a dislike to you although they know nothing about you, and no matter what you do and although you have never wronge dthis person for some reason they just dont like you. Has anyone else had this and if so how do you deal with it?
1 response
@vijigopi (991)
• United States
5 Jun 07
Don't worry latsmom! That's just one of life's wierd things. If you had observed, even you would have taken a liking or a dislike for someone whom u would have seen. For most of us, the first impression just hangs on for a couple of encounters. But after we get to know the person, we might often be surprised about our previous judgement and more often than not, we have to change our views about them. But sometimes things happen just as we expect them and then there's always the point that everybody does not like or hate the same thing as others. Each person has his/her own view and if they find us just as they expected us to be, we won't be able to change anything. There is also a time when we just don't like a person and we don't know the reason. No matter what they do, it changes nothing. You can call it fate if you like, but in that case, you can't do anything. Just accept it and be your own good self knowing there are others whom you love for what they are, and those that love you for what you are.