In hopes of creating greater understanding

@MJLami (1173)
United States
June 6, 2007 5:11pm CST
I recently responded to a discussion that asked why we didn't want something we do want. When I gave my point of view on this and asked my own questions of the poster I found the reply completely disrespected me. My questions were not answered, my point of view wasn't even attempted to be comprehended. Instead I received a very lengthy paragraph as if the writer just wanted to lash out. Have others experienced this? My concern here is that we are an international forum. We live different religions, beliefs, society expectations. Wouldn't we learn more and be more sucessful in trying to understand each other's differences instead of just lashing out because of personal convictions?
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@AmbiePam (86259)
• United States
6 Jun 07
Yes, but I think it gives that person power to talk about it or dwell on it. Which is HARD. There is no call for blatant disrespect, but all we can do is set an example. Perhaps others will follow. : )
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@MJLami (1173)
• United States
6 Jun 07
Naturally I agree. That's why I posted this. I want this to be a good forum for understanding, not a place to lash out for having different beliefs, convictions, etc.
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@AmbiePam (86259)
• United States
6 Jun 07
And sharing ideas is what is so great about MyLot. I just wish people wouldn't take things to extremes.
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@MJLami (1173)
• United States
6 Jun 07
I agree
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@Erilyn (3020)
• United States
8 Jun 07
I have read many more discussions than I have responded to and I have found that People will ask for opinions or ask how people feel about a certian topic then turn around and bash them for not going with the OP views. I don't understand that one myself. Isn't a discussion supposed to be about open dialogue between different people of different views? There have been a couple of discussions I have posted that I knew when posting them that people would prolly have a different point of view, and I may be bashed for it. I posted it anyway and steeled myself for the responses I got and got ready if need be to explain my point of view. I can't understand also why people feel they have to resort to name calling. We are all at least fairly intelligent enough to be able to post a discussion without all of that. We are part of an open forum why can't some people understand this and act accordingly? Sorry I am ranting a bit, but I think sometimes these things get out of hand.
@MJLami (1173)
• United States
15 Jun 07
Erilyn, I'm there with you hence the post. Thanks for sharing and having a safe outlet to vent. Sometimes just venting can do wonders.