All the time I thought she trusts me.... suddenly i found out she doesn't....

Philippines
June 7, 2007 3:24am CST
I was hurt when all of the sudden I found out that my boss doesn't trust me at all. It happened when she called me to her office and angrily asked me why I spread such gossip in front of my officemates. She didn't even bother to ask me first if I really did it or not. I never had the chance to explain to her for she keeps on talking and saying words which offended me. I was hurt because I never said any gossip at all. I keep confidential matters from anyone but still it happened. Since that day, I am not fond of her anymore and don't want to see her anymore. I even want to reveal all of her secrets. But I didn't. If you were in my shoe, what would you do?
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@klystron635 (1519)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
If I were in your shoes I wouldn't let anyone just judge me. I'll prove them all wrong. There are a lot of ways to explain yourself. You can talk to her and if she doesn't want to then force her. Everyone is entitled to talk and hopefully listened to. Make a move!
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• Philippines
8 Jun 07
Everyone now knows the real score except her. hehehe.... and i don't care what she thinks about me. I'm ok now.
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• Philippines
8 Jun 07
It's good to hear that you are feeling better. But I still think that you have to explain your side.
@Madona1 (2096)
• Gibraltar
7 Jun 07
If I were you, I would keep quiet for the time being and wait for a chance to tell your boss the true when she wasn't angry anymore. The way she acted like this, there must be someone misled her or she wrongly judge you. We are human and all make mistake, so we also have to learn how to forgive each other. It is never too late to reveal the true and I believe your boss will trust more after finding the true. Take care!
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• Philippines
8 Jun 07
Absolutely there is someone who made the gossip. But I don't mind at all what she thinks about me as long as I know that my conscience is clean.