Are you always nice with your partner?

@jade1986 (563)
India
June 8, 2007 5:29am CST
Are you always nice with your partner in terms of behavior? Do you consciously make an effort to be nice or sometimes you just falter and be rude? Does your partner respond equally?
6 responses
• United States
8 Jun 07
We try to always treat each other with respect. We're both human and have our bad days of course so there are times when we can be rude to each other. But that's pretty rare and we don't let it bother us for very long. It is an effort to always be repectful but it's very much worth it. We very rarely fight or argue and we never leave the other without saying we love each other. I never had that in past relationships and that's one reason why they never lasted.
@jade1986 (563)
• India
8 Jun 07
thanks, there's always a lot to learn from such discussions..thanx again
• United States
8 Jun 07
Thanks for the BR Jade!
@jogie_bien (1103)
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
yes, i am always nice with him, because he treat me as special person in his life.
@lucky_witch (2707)
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
Yes im trying to be nice to my partner at any possible way... I alwaays try to give the best tratment that I can do to him.... When Im mad i still try not to say words that I will regret saying later on. i just try to keep calm and explain my side. But if the situation came out of hand then I will probably make an excuse of going out for a while to cool down myself. When Im mad he does not respond to me equally... instead he explain to me the best possible way and calmness he could to explain his side.
• Philippines
8 Jun 07
well not all the time i would be nice to my partner... sometimes i am mean to them but not really that mean.. lol..
@shan_ab (377)
• India
8 Jun 07
In relationsships, especially in marriage relationships where both the partners live together, it is difficult to remain cool all the time.. Conflicts will be there.. Yes I sometimes make concious effort to be cool, but will not work out because I forgets that I am trying to be cool.. ;-)
• United States
8 Jun 07
I think in any relationship there will be little squabbles. Me and my boyfriend are usually very civil with each other, but at times we do get into little scuffles. It happens :)