What one person has caused you the most pain?

I guess my ex husband is the one....glad it is over with..but having kids with him ..forever seals you..even though they are grown..the doctor took your daughter from you?

Way. WAAAAYYY back in high school my sweetheart caused me so much grief. We had a son together. Then after a year or so she was telling everyone it was some other guys baby. We did have blood tests done and it was mine. Well I got angry, broke up with her. Telling her, fine then let him raise the child. I still helped out financially and still aw Ilo afterwards. We kept in touch for a long time after even though she killed my heart and feelings for HER. I last saw him maybe 30 years or so ago when he was a teenager. Anyhow they've both since gotten involved with things I'm not likened to so I haven't seen nor talked to either in over 30 years. To this day that kills me and breaks my heart. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!`

I'm pretty happy and have a wonderful life- This one made me really think- I can't think of anyone off hand that caused me alot of pain- All of my relationships ended ok- friends--- Never lost a child-- I'd have to say- a friend in high school- She started dating my old bf-- and made my life a living hel! my senior year- So she would be it- we have since reconciled- and really it isn't anything compared to what alot of people have done or went through!

I would have to say my only sister has caused me the most pain in my life. We used to be very close, until a few years ago. It's a long story but my sister is upset with me because I am still very close to my cousin. A few of my siblings detest my cousin and her entire family. I have always been best buds with my cousin, from age 5. I used to argue with my sister that my cousin is not her parents and is a very decent human being. She basically made me choose who I wanted to be friendly with and I "picked" my cousin. While I miss my sister and my 2 beautiful nieces, I can live with my choice. I fear she has no real friends (because she alienates them all) and has no one to talk to anymore. As much as it hurts me, I continue to give her the space she requested from me. PEACE

I am the one person who has caused me the most pain....through poor judgement I have caused myself and my family many moments of heartache.... Bet you did not expect an answer like this one....LOL