A long term relationship.

India
August 1, 2006 10:39am CST
Hello everyone out there! My story is a fairly simple one. for quite sometime now I have come to terms with the fact that I am Lesbian! I have had a couple of affairs but not something I wanted to be serious about,coz I was busy with a good career at the same time. believe me I have tried in vain to get attracted to Guys. I realized that I was more attracted to girls even at a very young age, and preferred wearing trousers most of the time. I am more comfortable in men's clothing and feel a trifle out of place in women's attire. I know it sounds wierd but that's the way it is.well now I am looking for a serious relationship,a life partner who wouldn't have any societal hang ups about this whole Lesbian thing! I have a bright career ahead of me, am very strong physically and mentally,very independent actually and hence need a gentle and caring partner whom I could cherish and love for the rest of my life! Although apparently even normal women get very attracted to me, I am not the sort to go for it all. I have certain values in life and am very loyal to the woman I love. The reason my previous affairs failed were because my women were afraid of what the World would say! Its not as if I was forcing them to advertise but I can't do it alone! The other person must want it too!
2 responses
• India
2 Aug 06
Hi friend dont worry. There are people every where that you want to meet everyday. If youdont beleive dating agencies i recommend meeting people doing things you enjoy: book clubs, local gym, racquetball, pool, whatever it is that you enjoy. I wish you the absolute best of luck and you always have friends here at mylot! Enjoy the total fun with these things.
• United States
1 Aug 06
Have you tried dating websites such as match.com or yahoo personals?