Do you hide secrets from your spouse/partner, boyfriend/girlfriend? And why?

United States
June 9, 2007 6:42am CST
I think we all may have done it at one point or another. Do you think there are some things that they just don't need to know? What kinds of things wold you keep from your significant other?
5 responses
@yemberzal (301)
• India
9 Jun 07
In any aspect of life, one should be truthful, loyal,sincere in the relations. But if any such incident had happened ,which was of course unintentional and if disclosed may harm the relations , it is better to keep the secret. Here the intention is good
• Philippines
9 Jun 07
No, I haven't hid any secrets to my partner. I believe the key to a serious relationship is honesty. With it, you will have trust in each other which will eventually turn into love. I always show my true self and it's up to him to accept or reject me because of whatever flaws I have. I don't really care. What's important for me is for others to LOVE me for who I am (including in a relationship) and there would be no problem for me loving them also.
@Coolgeth (1215)
• India
9 Jun 07
hi nixtickleme!! it may depends..if the secret will affect her badly then i wont let the secret.. But all the time i wont hide any thing from my lover..she knows allthing and viceversa..
@vampoet (825)
• Singapore
9 Jun 07
I do not have a gf yet. But if I do I will try not to keep secrets. I mean, secrets like birthday surprises and stuff like that is fine. But other secrets...if it is going to ruin the relationship, do you think they should be shared? Would you share such secrets?
• Philippines
9 Jun 07
i don't hide anything from my boyfriend..! we're very much open to each other..! but i guess i haven't told him EVERYTHING about my life yet..! but it doesn't mean that i don't want to..! :D