Is it okay for your besfriend to date your ex?

@Beth84 (88)
Philippines
June 10, 2007 7:17pm CST
I'm over him so i don't care about it. And it's just a date. Who knows, maybe they the one who are meant for each other.
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@bluishrose (2289)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
I still haven't experience this kind of situation, but i think for me its no big deal. He is past already, history i should say and i dont care who he dates. As for my friend, she knows the guy our past so i guess she really likes him. Maybe they might turn out a great couple =D
@Beth84 (88)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
Neither do I! I just want to talk about it because it happens mostly to my friends. And they always asking about my opinions.
@magikrose (5429)
• United States
11 Jun 07
You in mu opnion it is fine as long as you are completely over him. The other thing you should do is ask your friend not to tell you all the details of them being together considering you have been there done that you pretty much know how he is. Plus uou might feel bad if he does things diffrent with your friend than he did with you.
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@Beth84 (88)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
I'm completely over him. So there is no reason for me to feel bad about how he cares for my bestfriend. In fact, I would be happy for them.
@magnet (2087)
• United States
11 Jun 07
I would wonder out of all the men in the world why would she want to date my ex boyfriend. I would just feel sorry for her for taking on my old baggage.
@magnet (2087)
• United States
15 Jun 07
no. I don't even think about my ex. I have not seen him in years. I am completely over him. I am happily married. I just said that I would feel sorry for her meaning that if he was the same person he was years ago if it were going to turn to more than just a date I would feel sorry for her.
@Beth84 (88)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
It's just a date. No big deal. Are you still hook with your ex?
• United States
11 Jun 07
I think if you really don't care, and they really seem to like eachother than it would be fine. But I do think it is only okay for a friend to date an ex when you are REALLY TRULY okay with it. If you aren't, they aren't mind readers, you need to tell them. But I think it is great that you don't mind.
@Beth84 (88)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
I'm absolutely okay about it. No big deal.........
11 Jun 07
if he's my X there must be a reason why he is my X and i wouldn't want to hear stories about him or see him very often... so, no, for me it wouldn't be ok, even if i were over him.
@Beth84 (88)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
But what if they were really meant for each other? EVERYBODY DESERVES TO BE HAPPY!!!!!! You turned out to be selfish if you act like that.............