Would you stay with your boyfriend if he got another girl pregnant?

@Beth84 (88)
Philippines
June 10, 2007 7:31pm CST
You were both in love but you found out later that he got another girl pregnant before you two become officially on. They're separated because the girl wants to. Would you stay with him or not?
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• United States
11 Jun 07
Yes. I was in this situation with my daughter's father. In fact, his child with the other girl was born in February 2005, and our daughter in April 2005. So they are only two months apart, almost three. I stayed with him because the conception was before we got together, only weeks before we got together, but before us still. I made the decision to do my best to keep him in his other daughter's life as well as our daughter together.....the children are innocent, why should they suffer and not have their father?
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@Beth84 (88)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
Yeah right girl!
11 Jun 07
of course i would. if he tried to take on the responsability of the child and the X didn't let him to... what is his fault? and of course i would never keep him away from his child. to get pregnant it takes 2... it's not only the guy's fault.
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• United States
11 Jun 07
If he got the girl pregnant before I started seeing him, yes, I would still stay with him. Especially if we are in love and he is really a good guy. Sometimes accidents happen. He didn't cheat on you, and he didn't mean for it to happen. So yes, I would still be with him.
@sallyxu126 (1184)
• China
11 Jun 07
if this happened before I become his girlfriend, I will accept and stay with him .but if this happened after I dating with him, I will not stay with him and will leave him for sure. I don't mind what happened before I become his girlfriend, but I will not accpet any betray after we build our relationship.
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• China
11 Jun 07
No!the answer is definitely NO!I can still remember that how my boyfriend do that.Though that girl did not pregnant,I can not bear!I was mad at the time I got that news!I just can not believe my ears!I hated them so much...
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@Beth84 (88)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
But past is past! The guy do anyhting to keep their relationship but the problem is the girl. You can't blame him.
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• Philippines
11 Jun 07
i'd stay with him. it happened in the past so it's something that i have no control of. if i really loved the guy, i would accept him...his past and all that. no ifs, no buts...just him.
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@judyt00 (3497)
• Canada
11 Jun 07
I'm.old.enough.that.everyone.I'd.date.has.kids...I'd.stay.with. him.and.make.sure.he.paid.his.child.support.on.time.and.went.over. the.amount.to.get.presents.for.the.kid...I.wouldn't.date.a.guy.who. refused.to.pay.child.support
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@Gorgeous24 (1091)
• United States
11 Jun 07
If I found out he got another girl pregnant BEFORE me and him started going out then YES I would stay with him because technically he didnt cheat on me so there would be no reason for me to leave him. If we really loved each other then we would be able to work thru that..I would welcome his child into our life with open arms.
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@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
11 Jun 07
Hmmm...yeah. If I'm really in love with him, then I would accept everything in his past. And at least, it happened before we met.
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