Very hard to find a honest firend.

good friend
@redsky (100)
Bangladesh
June 12, 2007 12:11am CST
I get some new friend when I went college. One of them want some money for exam fee. He told me that he returned within few days. After 2/3 years I do not get back my money.
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@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
Maybe because he doesn't have the money yet to pay you back. Don't worry if you see him again, then you can try to lend him money too, see if he can lend for you or if not he was never your good friend. A lot of people are like that!
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@jalbeos (1175)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
Great idea!
@redsky (100)
• Bangladesh
12 Jun 07
I never cry in fornt him.
@jalbeos (1175)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
I agree in some cases. This happened to me too, my friend asked me for some money so I gave him... I do not ask the money back. I'll wait him to give the money back to me willingly. I treat him as friend 'til now. :)
@redsky (100)
• Bangladesh
12 Jun 07
You are good human.
@jalbeos (1175)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
Thanks for the compliment! :)
@lynboobsy11 (11343)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
Your right with money involved? no one is to trust too. Sometimes even a ralatives too is hard to trust in terms of money.
@jalbeos (1175)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
I agree!
@anetteh (3590)
• Sweden
12 Jun 07
Well, there are some of things to consider when you meat a new so called friends. I think your best friends you get from kindergarten, if you have not, I do not think you get them when you get older. Do not get me wrong, but of course you can get friends as a grown up, but to get a so called best friend I think are almost impossible. The trust for a friend builds up in years, not in a night. I hope you will be more careful in the future. I am.
@emckee (465)
• United States
12 Jun 07
I know it's hard to get past a real "friend" not paying you back. But the real HONEST truth is that you should either: 1. Not mix money and friends. or 2. Give money to friends and then truly not expect to get that money back. Truly, in your heart, for the sake of the friendship and good will, NOT expect it back. Cheers.
@jalbeos (1175)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
Cool... if you are willing to give, you should not expect anything, that's loving each other, be willing to give.
• China
12 Jun 07
I think not everyone are not honest! When i was a college student , i have a good friend ,we were in the same bedroom , she often help me, and she didnot get something from me! And we are getting in touch with each other now!
@jalbeos (1175)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
Yeah right! Close friends are like that, helping each other and sharing everything.