I am devasted with people who rated me as negative in my comment!

@jbelle (912)
Philippines
June 12, 2007 4:16am CST
I have 9 stars and it goes down to 8 stars. i believe that my reputation decreases because i am being rate as negative in my comment. why are some people here are so mean? if i were to ask i enjoy responding to comments, posting discussions and replying to all mylotters discussions. Everybody who responds to my discussions i rated them positive, how about you? do you rate them negative? how would you feel making an effort responding to their discussions but in the end will mark you as negative? oh well, im very sad about it. i thougth we are all here to help, interact, learn, earn and make friends with other? if you cannot reply to their comment it woulld be better if you mark them as positive i think it one way of showing my appreaiation to all of you...
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@freak369 (5113)
• United States
12 Jun 07
Ratings go up and down all the time. I go between a 9 and 10 on an almost daily basis. Is it better to speak your mind and answer honestly or to dish out cookie cutter answers to keep a high rating? Only you can answer that question.
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@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
yeah but i think because they mark you as negative? what do you think?
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@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
ok because i think my comment is about a certain topic but they mark you as negative? i dont know why?
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@alpine_007 (1469)
• Pakistan
12 Jun 07
i also am facing this that my reputation was 9 and some body decreased my rating of 96 and now i have 78. i also comment on all the replies which i recieve on my discussion and i also rate all of them positive
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@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
ok that's nice. just be good and never rate anybody as negative. it hurts if you do so! hehehe
@leanette (3002)
• India
12 Jun 07
And star never moved from a 9 ever since I got one!Oh yes I remember this one time I got an 8 because of this joke I made on britney spears! lol But I guess am happy with what I've gotten, because I say what I wanna say, regardless if they negative me or not. Well in my dicussions I just can't help rating + to everybody whos responded, I just don't know why. I've hardly ever rated anybody a -. Its not hard to get a 10 as long as you don't disagree to what people have to say here.
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@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
yeah but i hope mylotters wont rate us negative...
@AmbiePam (85701)
• United States
12 Jun 07
Hon, don't take it personally. It is happened to me. I was a ten, then went to a nine, then went to a ten, and I am currently a nine. It isn't something to be devastated about. It doesn't mean you have a lot of negatives. This is just a fluctuating thing. You'll be back at a nine in no time. : )
@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
yes honey thank you so much.. i am trying my best to have a 10 star but i am sad that it decreases. i hope no negative rate for all of us here... happy mylotting...
@howard96h (11640)
• New York, New York
12 Jun 07
They have done this to me also, you can't even give an honest opinion without some people dragging you down. I guess they have nothing else better to do.
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@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
hmmm i hate mylotters who rate fellow mylottes as negative. anyway we will just pray for them.. Ü
• United States
12 Jun 07
I have rated commenters as negative, but only if their post was completely off topic, or was so full of spelling and grammatical errors that it was illegible.
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@AmbiePam (85701)
• United States
12 Jun 07
Those are good reasons. Or for me, if they visciously attack another MyLotter for no reason.
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@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
really? so why just reply to their comment or give them warning? how sad... everybody here would like to have a good reputation... but i think if you mark them negative your reputation will also decrease? so figure it out just kidding. i just hope that no negative rate as possible.
@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
12 Jun 07
Well don't be too upset of the rating yea , i was also 8 but increased to 9 recently yea ... prehaps you produce more quality content and people will start giving you positive rating yea .... for encouragment given you a + yea ^_^ take care enjoy in mylot yea
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@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
thanks but i cant seem to understand they rated you as negative?
@badpenny (741)
• Lancaster, Texas
12 Jun 07
I do understand wher you are coming from, but I also think you are taking this rating syustem way too seriously. After all, what others think of you is irrelevant. Only how you perceive yourself is important in the end. Speak your mind, and if some folks don't like what you have said, let them go eat worms; it is their loss, not yours.
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@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
yeah its really irritating that you give comment which is base and about their discussions they will still mark me as negative-very sad... Ü
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
18 Jun 07
So you want everyone to like you? If someone does something wrong would you say it is all right? Mylot put a minus as well as a plus for a reason. If they wanted everyone to mark everything is okay, they would have just put a plus sign there. You do not have to mark everyone a plus. For instance if you were asking about the hair styles in 1940 California, and someone wrote, "You're a f---k--g ---" or made disparaging remarks about the Philippines, would you give them a plus? However some give minuses to people they disagree with, no matter how polite you are.
• United States
12 Jun 07
I agree with u. I recently was rated negative and my stars went from 9 to 8 just like u. I didn't take it personal but I didn't like it either. I got rated negatively just because I gave my personal opinion. And I wasn't being disrespectful either. Anyways, I'll give u a good rating! :)
@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
thanks ill rate everybody as positive when they respond to my discussions. thanks my friend..
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@Ashgun (472)
13 Jun 07
Hi Jbelle; i think you have been irrelevant to one of your discussion! Well that would be great if every mylotters support each other... But thats not the case here dear! Well do not be too upset with that koz i was rated 8 and now i am nine... maybe tomorrow i can be rated back to eight. Thats part and parcel of mylot!!!
@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
18 Jun 07
hi ashgun, thanks for the response and for the advise. even if my response is relevant, they mark be (-). But its ok il try not to be upset its part of the game. Ü
@Dan_ul (858)
• Romania
12 Jun 07
I gave you a minus too... cause I felt like it:P... now rate me positive I beg you:D... I will still get the money;)
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@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
hmmm very bad!!! but anyways its your prerogative to rate me negative anyways maybe your happy pulling somedbody down and maybe seeing somebody felt sad makes you happy! but dont worry ill rate u as positive. ill pray for you!
@RESGuy (859)
• United States
13 Jun 07
Can you see who rates you? Is that an option on myLot? Anyways sorry this happened to you! Rated +.
@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
Thank you...no i couldn't see it but i know i just hope that mylot could only allow the person who made the discussion to rate not all mylotters...
@RESGuy (859)
• United States
15 Jun 07
Yeah I think that is a very good idea too. Rated +.
• Germany
12 Jun 07
i really like to rate people on what they are talking about and if it interests me and i don't really like discussion when they are really really really off topic and i don't rate people on their grammer
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@jbelle (912)
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
thats right never rate them negative...
@KatieS (503)
• United States
16 Jun 07
I've been limiting my responses to just my friends lately because I feel my friends know me and what to expect out of me. I rated one person negative a few weeks back because they were unnecessarily rude to someone in one of my discussions. If I start a discussion, I appreciate everyone's response, don't always rate it, but definitely would rate negative if they bash me or my friends who respond positively. I don't even know what the stars mean, I just keep on mylotting, EVS!