Will you marry a not good looking guy or a girl??

India
June 12, 2007 4:33am CST
Will you marry someone who who is not good looking at all?? We dont want beauty queens but everyone does wants a good looking patner! We give big talks about girl or guy should be good heart, no doubt he should be but in the end beauty only cathes our eyes...!! so if you happen to be in a sitiuation will you marry a not so good looking person? (Eveyone is special and good looking god had just wrapped us differently... i am sorry if my words are harsh or has hurt anyones sentiments)
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• Philippines
15 Jun 07
Ih he is a responsible person with a good heart, it wouldnt matter if he isnt good looking. There are certainly things which are more important than being good looking. Whats a good face with out a good attitude. Beauty anyway is skin deep. In marriage, physical attraction isnt the number one factor to look at.
• Saudi Arabia
22 Jul 07
Hi there good 2 see you here.... I have so much respect for your view here. True looks are important, I mean ur partner must be at least acceptable to you even if he or she is not pretty. But this would not be a priority, if the person is good in the inside, that's what counts.
@m0l3m1n (13)
• Philippines
22 Jul 07
Goog looking girl is a plus factor for me.. what we usually want is smeone who's heart is good and all but hey, are we looking for a saint or a perfect girl here?..lol.. What i want to say is, if you love somebody, it doesn't matter if there are things that you don't want bout that person.. In giving love, you should accept his/her whole being whether good or bad and if it's bad.. try to look at it in a positive outlook..
@academic2 (7010)
• Uganda
22 Jul 07
No go4amits, you must look good for me to marry you,I wouldnt go for anything frighteningly ugly, and this doesnt have to be extreme beauty, just modicum beauty but character must exequite and spotless!
• India
22 Jul 07
Marrying a person who is not good looking is not a matter at all. It all depends on your mind and heart. Love should not come from the outward beauty. It should be from inward beauty. if its based on good looking, then that is not love and that relationship will not continue for a long time.
• Saudi Arabia
22 Jul 07
You are right about that, beauty is the first thing that catches our eyes BUT when you want 2 get married 2 someone or be in a relationship with someone, looks mustn't be priority or mustn't be the criteria by which you make ur choice, you can not overlook it completely but the big credit goes for the character. If the person you wanna get married 2 is not really handsome but he's kind of acceptable to you and he has a great personality, character whatever you may call it, I'd say go 4 it. I said in previous discussion 70% character 30% looks. Thanks for the interesting post and good luck...
@xmichx (109)
• Philippines
22 Jul 07
Looks are not everything I know some people who have handsome and beautiful spouses and they are not happy. What is important is to have a loving and caring partner. I would marry a not so good looking man if he loves me and will look after me till the end of my life.
• China
22 Jul 07
Personally,I think appearance should be taken into consideration. But as one saying goes: Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. If you truly like someone, you will forget about the importance of appearance. Simply like being happy together and sharing emotions together. If everyone finds a good-looking girl or boy, whom will the so-called ugly-looking persons be engaged with?
@abrarr (1246)
• Pakistan
15 Jun 07
yeah i think if teh person i'm goint o marry is the oen who will take care of me and is goint o be honest to me and taht person is goint o be honest to me then i'll definitely marry her.
• Philippines
13 Jun 07
Good day! Actually it really depends..Some values good heart than good looks..and in some cases some values money than good looks or good heart..We all know that having a good face is a plus factor..Who doesnt want to marry someone who is good looking? Everyone of us get attracted if a person has a good looks right? Marriage is different in all aspects because its a lifetime committment.. So for me, if youll ask me what to choose between good looks or good heart..I would choose the latter..its a good feeling if somebody loves you for what you are and not just by looks only..
• United States
12 Jun 07
I'm going to answer your question with another question and I think you can figure it out :) Do I love him?
@fly_shay (333)
• Philippines
12 Jun 07
you don't have to be sorry because i think this topic is worth discussing since many girls/ladies out there are really looking for the ideal type. But as you grow older, you'll soon realize that looks don't matter.And that attitude is more important.But iam not saying that these are the people who are not very goodlooking.LOL... they are just not the heartrob type..well, i guess i'm just lucky that i married a goodlooking man with the right attitude...goodluck for those who are still looking for the right one.
• China
12 Jun 07
I really don't know.But my husband is short and fat.And i'm thin and tall.My friend said to me we're didn't fit.Now my son is almost one year.All of the neighbour said to me he is handsome and cool.Maybe it's a joke.But i love to hear.And i think we don't hurt him.Why i say this?Because i have read something what it said such ugly person is a sinner.Becouse he will bare more unfair attitude.All people including us love beauti.It's the nature.True love is importmant.We also should think over if we can afford a happy life to our baby if we want to have a birth.Maybe it far from your discussion.If just depends on my feeling.Share it please.
@youless (91494)
• Guangzhou, China
12 Jun 07
First of all, it's so difficult to marry to a handsome man or a beautiful girl. Second, we have a famous saying here: Lover's eyes can see the beauty. If you truly love him/her, you won't mind his/her appearance very much. For example, if he is fat and in your eyes, you will find him very cute. It just depends on your love to your partner. You know, everybody will grow old one day and nobody can remain the beautiful face at that time. So why can the look bother your marriage?
• Singapore
12 Jun 07
I think everyone would love their spouses to be at least pleasant looking. This way, at least one won't die of fright when he/she wakes up in the morning. In case someone starts to jump to conclusion and wants to put me down at the earliest opportunity, please let me clarify that I meant that in good jest. :P go4amitshah, I think love is blind. I have always had the belief that if you are destined to come together, you are. It's as simple as there. No matter how many circles you make, how many guys/girls you date, you will ultimately return to YOUR ONE. Love is very simple, don't think too complicated. (Actually I am a very simple guy who has never fallen in love. I am just pretending to be a love expert LOL.)