Boys

United States
October 23, 2006 11:17pm CST
I am in a relationship with the greatest guy in the world..but why do guys always get scared about marriage! i mean he planned it..and now he isscared it is too soon??!!?? confused
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19 responses
@SRANKIN (282)
• United States
24 Oct 06
Maybe he loves you so much that he wants to take ALL the right steps.. if he feels that it is too soon, then if you love him you'll wait.. always understand your b/f or g/f's feelings. Let him know that he can speak his mind around you. Hope that helps..
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@dellion (6706)
• Malaysia
30 Oct 06
Yes,am agreed....that might be the main reason for him to scare it now ......its really good if he did think so.
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@shivanm (211)
• Trinidad And Tobago
28 Oct 06
Marriage is a big step and a big committment for anyone to take. It's probably a good thing he is a bit scared so that the both of you can be sure of both your goals, dreams and where you would like to be. If you all love each other so much (and I am not disputing that), take your time both of you and it will be. That's my humble opinion.
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• United States
28 Oct 06
thanks good opinion
• China
25 Jul 07
maybe you are so bezutiful,they can not feel safe with you!
@soneparm (634)
• India
29 Dec 06
you are really nice looking but the guys are not like to marriage early so they sacred it ,..
@vincent72 (1634)
• Australia
7 Dec 06
Yeh well maybe he loves you , but cant just commit , i dont know , some guys are like that iguess, have to see
@limcyjain (3523)
• India
23 Nov 06
May be he knows something more than you, like his earning power, his family enviornment. He must be wanting to get things right before marriage so that you do not have to cut a sorry figure after marriage.
@fiasco007 (819)
• United States
23 Nov 06
besause he is a little boy. when you find a man, he wont hesitate for 1 second to marry you. A man, (MAN) Knows what he wants and takes it! He dont hesitate. he's not worth your time baby.
@rakesh162 (131)
• India
17 Nov 06
Not everyone is scared , u r scared only when u r not sure about things , especially when the question sounds like somthin harmful ! which can put an end to the fun $
• Portugal
16 Nov 06
Everybody says that don´t want to married, soon or not only you and him knows when it´s time to. That you two will feel when it´s time.
@istanto (8571)
• Indonesia
3 Nov 06
Maybe your Boy friend not ready yet to married. you know not all ready because many factor.
• India
3 Nov 06
MAY BE HIS LIFE IS AS CONFUSED...I DONT KNOW ABOUT OTHERS BUT ONCE I MAKE A DECISION I STICK BY IT..THATS Y I MAKE A DECISION..IF HE IS AFRAID RIGHT NOW HOW DO U THINK HE IS GOING TO GO WID UR DOWNS??THINK ABOUT IT
• Indonesia
30 Oct 06
ha...?He have a own reason.be patient...
@spoiled311 (5502)
• Philippines
30 Oct 06
marriage is not at all that simple...it's not something that you can just throw up anytime you feel you like it...maybe your bf is just in the stage of weighing things right now...just take it as it is...you're still young...no pressures, take your time and when God finally wills it, then go!:)
• India
30 Oct 06
greatest guys shouldnt be trusted
@mdecker (123)
• Canada
30 Oct 06
Sounds like a committment issue however I do not know all the details.
@seventh (123)
• Indonesia
29 Oct 06
I'm sorry if i have different opinion from others. The thinks that show up in my head are *he don't have will with you in the future("Perhaps") he want still adventure and get prettier girl than you. *he don't have a vision in his life. So he is difficult to decide something. ^-^ ask him...
@kesfylstra (1870)
• United States
28 Oct 06
Give it time, but do communicate with him about it. That is key. And if you want different things, then perhaps you need a break to determine if you really want each other.
@ArsonCuff (3121)
• United States
28 Oct 06
Maybe he loves you and jst wants to make sure everything is right and perfect...I'm not sure what his past may be like, but I know that lots of us guys who do give in to committment find that girls like to change their minds a lot and marriage his a huge step for a girl to have a guy take and then change her mind. Best of luck to you.
@remaster74 (4065)
• Greece
28 Oct 06
I think I'm confused too. First he says he wants to marry you and then he just says he thinks it's too late? I think this is the work of his friends. If you really want to reach marriage then do the same. Tell him it is too soon for you too and ask from him to think about it for few days.