if you best friend fall in love,will u feel sad of less ime together ?

China
June 13, 2007 10:26pm CST
i have a good friend, she fall in love with a good guy recentlly~~ i am happy for her but in the meantime i am sad, because she have no that more time to be with me~ we can not do something together and have lots of fun as before~~ will u be like this, if u are in such a situation?
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@chenee08 (591)
• Philippines
15 Jun 07
i felt it before... my bestfriend had a boyfriend till now they're still together. but im happy for them, really!! but i felt jealous sometimes coz everytime i texted my friends to hang out with me... she always said she cant because her boyfriend won't allow her to go out... i really felt sad. but i tried to understand her but there came a time that we didn't talk, even in our school and i was really hurt... she's the only person who really understand me.. then, one day she approached me and ask me if we could talked, she told me that she really love her boyfriend and hope i would understad why she had no more time with me ...and i said yes... i never really thought that would be the last time i would talk to her...T_T
• China
15 Jun 07
thanks for your response~ i am sad~ but i think i will have less time for my friends either~ i will get married~ i will have my own life ~~ maybe we will live in the different cities~~ that is life~~
• China
15 Jun 07
I will be happy if she fall in love with the right man who treat her very well.But if she lead a hard life after falling in love,I will feel sad...
• China
15 Jun 07
thanx for your response~ i think i care her~~ so i feel sad for have less time to get together~~ but i will be happy if she live happy~hhe
• Hong Kong
14 Jun 07
I would be happy for her if she is being together with someone treasures her and she loves. I have a good friend and she started dating a year ago. She spent most of her time with her boyfriend and we met less and less. I think we are just moving along different paths of life. I develop more interesting hobbies (mylotting is surely one of them) and I meet more of my other friends. I don't usually feel sad about the situation but sometimes I do when we meet and we need to catch up a lot on our current stories, that's when I start to feel the distance between us.
• China
14 Jun 07
thanks for your sharing~~ maybe i will change and be more happier for her because she can have a man who love her most~~ i do feel happy for her ~~ thanx you~ DIFFERENT PATHS OF LIFE~
@miaolin (397)
• China
14 Jun 07
I also have met such situation years ago.At that time,my best friend has become one important part in my life.I would be with her everyday.When she had boyfriend,all the things changed.I was alone.Everyday I should go to have class alone and go to have dinner alone,sometimes,I even should go shopping alone.At the beginning,I couldn't adopt such situation,but I did my best to change myself.I told myself that you couldn't depend on anybody,and you should be independant.Gradually,I accustomed being alone.I think I have succeed.After all,my future should be planned and come true by myself.
• China
14 Jun 07
yes~~ maybe our situation is similar~ and i can try my best to live a new life~~ thanks for your help~
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
having friends doesnt mean owning them,,like in a bf/gf relationship,its a give and take situation, if your friend love a guy, support her, think of this at least your friend found a gud guy as u said, lucky for her isn't it,,u must be happy for her and if she dont have time to spend with you, u can talk to her and say what u feel,maybe she can do something to have time with u or u can make friend with her bf so 3 of you can go out,or if u think you'll be out of place when 3 of u go out u can just talk to the guy and ask him if u can spend time to ur frnd sometimes...also u can visit ur frnd at home
• China
14 Jun 07
your response is helpful~~thanx you ~~ i think i know what should i do~thank you so much~~