When you get angry, which kind of things do you want to do immediately?

China
June 14, 2007 12:08am CST
fight with somebody or curse somebody such as your friend,your neighber even god;or destroy something just like paper,cup and so on;or tell your friend or your parents about your trouble;or something else? I just tell my friends what happened to me,then I will calm down gradually.
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6 responses
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
hi angela2006! i seldom get angry but when i do, i talk to a friend about what happened to lessen the anger inside me. and after a while, i will be ok and back to normal.
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• China
14 Jun 07
I have a good temper too,but sometimes it can not be avoided to get angry,our way to solve the prolem is more or less the same.
@maryannemax (12174)
• Sweden
14 Jun 07
that's true angela. even if how much patience we have inside, at some point, we will reach our boiling point and really just burst the anger out. but better to talk things through first before resolving the problem in a rude way... anne
@swatig (1187)
• India
14 Jun 07
drink lot of h20 means water and try to relax alone or start talking to someother person on someother topic to divert my attention.
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• China
14 Jun 07
yeah,we can divert our attention through doing something else.
• United States
14 Jun 07
When I get angry, which doesn't happen too often, I get into a heated discussion where I restrain myself, as best I could, from raising my voice because I don't want the neighbors to hear that there's an argument going on. I just vent my anger and after a few minutes, I forget about it.
• China
14 Jun 07
I think it is easy for you to firgive others,because you can forget unhappy thing quickly,it is kind of you.
• United States
14 Jun 07
My first reaction is generally getting defensive, and looking to place blame on someone else. I have learned to minimize that, however, and it doesn't last too long. Then I try to get to the root of my anger and do whatever I can, that's within my control, to correct the situation. If it's something that's beyond my control I just try to accept it.
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• China
14 Jun 07
I think it should be an effective method to calm down yourself.
@magica (3710)
• Bulgaria
14 Jun 07
My typical reaction is to curse. I need to be allone and to calm down in loneliness. I cant bear nobody arround when i am angry.
• China
14 Jun 07
I am on the contray,I do not like to be with somebody else when I get angry,because I am afraid I will burst out to him.
@maryannemax (12174)
• Sweden
14 Jun 07
for as long as i can, i will hold my temper and not say bad words. but when i really am angry, i go to the person i am angry at and tell him/her personally why i am mad. i always want to talk things through. but if i can't really make the person listen, it's the time when i shout at him/her. something i really don't want to happen... anne