How Can A Guy Handle Being Sexually Harrassed By Another Guy?!

Nigeria
June 14, 2007 12:33am CST
This is a true life story of a friend. how should a guy handle being sexually harassed or molested by another guy? This actually happened to me when i was about 13 years old by my so-called lesson teacher who happened to be a corper serving in a nearby clinic. Its a long story and i don't have the time to write it now, i would do so soon. I really thank God he didn't rape me or anything but the experience has scared me for life, i lived with hate and resentment for years and even fear because i thought i did something to warrant it and was scared something of the sort would happen to me again, you should have seen how uncomfortable i was when i got into university and found out the showers did not have doors this experience made me scared that i would do the same to someone else, crazy huh especially when i went for NYSC. I was around young children and always tried to avoid them because i was scared something would come over me and make me do the same thing that was done to me as a kid. I have really prayed about the experience and asked God to heal me, and i tell you in the past 10 years i have received a whole lot of healing both emotionally and spiritually. I have even come to forgive the guy although i don't know what ill do if i ever see him again. I hear that this happens a lot and is even on the increase especially in all boys boarding schools, i have heard countless stories. How do we curb this? Because from what i hear, the ones who were molested or attacked in junior school do the same to others when they become seniors and the cycle continues.Many young guys have been through this horror and have no one to help them, i was one of them and i actually have never told anyone about it, i really thank God for the strength. Now that i'm a grown man, ill do anything to prevent this from happening to any other person.
3 responses
• Romania
9 Mar 08
Predators...pf the only thing to calm their hormones is too reject their acting and even report them. They will regret for even thinking to act like that. Your strong to some that experience will last for a life time, your strong. If you can try to find that person and maybe his victims than report him to the public. people like him should be get away with their behaivor.
• Australia
14 Jun 07
Your experience is exactly the way a woman would feel. It doesn't matter if you're male or female, it will screw you up. "How can a guy handle being sexually harrassed by another guy?"- you don't. But, like a female, you have to try and find some form of closure and get on with life.
@chiyosan (29383)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
i think guys can get over this stuffs if they are like singles.. not if they have families to protect, and kids who look up to them.\ but it should be easier than women.