Do you hate aging?
By rockingmom
@rockingmom (885)
Philippines
June 14, 2007 9:21am CST
i don't hate it but loving it somehow, just don't state the wrinkles..oh yeah..
but even old like me should look beautiful..right?
"""life starts at 40""""""
so im not 40 yet and have so much to enjoy with life..
why others are hating aging, it is just like leveling up..
they hate it because of the looks..yah maybe i hate it in that way but i think i already accepted it..
when you have accepted it, inner beauty comes out and external beauty blooms..don't stress yourself with the effects..
do you agree with me?
if you don't why?
do you think aging has more responsibility to yourself and to others?
thanks for the reply..expect from me a good response to your response too!!^^
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12 responses
@lordwarwizard (35747)
• Singapore
16 Jun 07
Yes I hate aging. Thinking about it just makes me depressed.
As long as you stay in that body on this earth, you age when your body ages. The spirit is young crap is only comforting when you try to believe it.
@rockingmom (885)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
yes, but still, believe in it..just believe!!and that's the only way for you to forget that lonely effects of aging..thanks..good!!^^
@lovelydame3000 (1577)
• India
14 Jun 07
Hi rockingmom! I am 37. But i am told that i do not look my age. I have a few grey hairs on my head which i hate. So far, i have only thought of living today and have not thought about what may happen tomorrow.
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@rockingmom (885)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
yah, just be happy always and follow your heart with the guidance of the brain and you'll notfeel aging..yah you are beautiful as well as i, cause we are all beautiful right, cause we are only the one who makes us feel unbeautiful unpretty..thanks..GoOd!!
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@abroji (3247)
• India
14 Jun 07
There is no point in hating or liking a natural phinomina. Aging is a natural phinomina. It is inevitable. So be prepared for that. Don't spent too much money for medicines and therapies to escape from aging. All such attempts are futile.
Thank you.
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@rockingmom (885)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
thanks too, but we cannot change or it is difficult to change the present system in this world that you should be more pleasant not just pleasant to be acquired to the position you like and also in this discriminating or false opinions are just normal we should fight or go with the flow or else you'll be left behind if you would still fight for your own self..but having those treatment also for other people have made their self-esteem and confidence stronger..right?? yes it's good to fight but i think that system is really difficult to be destroyed..thanks..good!!
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@rockingmom (885)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
thanks too..thanks again...haha!!^^, thanks for having you here...!!^^good!!
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@rangics (1334)
• Philippines
14 Jun 07
I don' hate aging. Why should I?. ;) I am enjoying life really. If i get old one day ( i know I'm getting there...we all are! LOL ), I'll proudly say that I have travelled this life meaningfully and hoping that I have touched other people's heart too. ( I'm really working hard on it.) Life is a blessing that we should always thank God for. So thank HIM for allowing you to stay here on earth a bit longer uhu?. Godbless friend. ;)
@rockingmom (885)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
yes, enjoy life to the fullest..maybe you're right not to be bothered by aging because still it is a mere fact that we should accept but also we cannot change the rules made by men that you should have somewhat more beauty outside than inside...i just think so, cause many people are givig discrimination right..thanks..we should efface that thought..thanks..good!!
@rockingmom (885)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
thanks too for giving your own opinion, i ham hoping to see more from you in my future discussion..thanks..good!!
@crazypumpkin (501)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
I am in my early 30's but I can already feel age creeping up on me. It's not that I hate aging but the thought that I am losing time and that soon I will not be able to do all the things that I want to do is scaring me right now.
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@rockingmom (885)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
don't be scared, cause look at us we have passed it already, just remember do all the thing which will boost your confidence more, ok!?..thanks.good!!^^
@Logos_1 (52)
• United States
16 Jun 07
When you are young, handsome and energetic, you are like a magnet. Everyone wants you all the time. As you get older, you get a little left behind. This is the time I come to terms with the real me. What was before was just a charm. I am beginning to accept myself. Looking for some inner beauty. Yes Aging requires a lot of hard work and responsibility. Let's keep at it.
@rockingmom (885)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
that is a fact that we have to face that aging is requiring a lot of hard work and responsibility, i agree with you!!^^thanks..good!!
@Sir_bobby88 (8231)
• Singapore
16 Jun 07
I do hate my age getting older but my face still looks like a young child
@rockingmom (885)
• Philippines
17 Jun 07
oh, you're so lucky thank for the response i wish i am like you, but quite so, haha, thanks..good!!^^
@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
14 Jun 07
I hate aging. Once you are older, you can only look back at a certain age. As far as our looks, they fade, and that hurts. Even though it is the inside that counts, it's hard to loose the outside beauty. Second, it hurts to age. Your joints hurt. You get more diseases. I am not afraid to die, I am afraid to live and get dependent on someone if I should have a stroke or heart attack. I hate aging.
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@rockingmom (885)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
don't be afraid to get dependent to someone cause it's like give and receive, i think when you get old those helping you are just giving back what you had given to them..don't be afraid, i know those will help you really want to help you..right?, yah it hurts to get older but fight, we have given this only chance to live and i think or as far as i know it is only one, and no more..just play the game don't make yourself the one who will make you disappear or lose in this game you are in, those are just trials and let me tell you this from one famous personality here, he said that THATS ONLY A PROBLEM IT CANNOT KILL YOU, it means to me that a problem cannot kill you why bother yourself to be afraid or to be shy, if you see the solution and are shy or afraid, why?, it can't kill you, , , right?...just keep playing and trials will be gone in time, yeah it is the inside that counts but in this world more on outside, just try to do the things which will help you gain confidence and self-esteem, thanks..GooD!!
@mrddln (457)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
ofcourse, everybody hates aging. You dont want to grow old are you? but its the fact. we have to accept it and at least be realistic in our views in life. As we grow old, the lesson that we get hightens.
we forget the bad things that we have done and try to upgrade ourselves by renewing ourselves through changing our bad attitudes. we should see to it the as we grow old, the bad attitudes are already gone because its no good.
@rockingmom (885)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
yes you are right bad things disappears and good comes, i hate aging or just don't love it much..yah, the fact we have to face and fight, the lessons are just leveled up as we level up ourselves, when aging we should also be growing - i mean the way we are more matured and more understanding, thanks, good!!
@speedy1279 (2665)
• United States
14 Jun 07
As of right now, no I don't hate aging. But I am only 28 years old, to most people I am still young. Ask me again in 10 years when I am getting close to 40 and it might be different. Getting old is part of life, it can not be avoided so why fight it!!!
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@rockingmom (885)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
yeah, itll be different but still fight because you ARE still part of this world..no discrimination or bad opinions can destroy you, just fight and fight..thanks..good!!
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
15 Jun 07
I have accepted aging as a normal and healthy part of life. That does not mean that I don't use antiaging products and such. I love my wrinkles and the few gray hairs I have 'earned' along the way but I don't want to necessarily wear them as a badge of honor.
I definitely love all the wisdom that has come with aging. I love that I have learned what really matters in life and no longer worry about the silly things.
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@rockingmom (885)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
yes, you're definitely right, we should take care of ourselves too, and make some works to give us the beauty again, it helps much to love aging and not to hate it, if you still look nice then why bother aging, but to do this you have to use science, it's not bad to have it tried, the bad there is you never tried, it's part of building ones confidence and self-esteem ..thanks..good!!
@Woodpigeon (3710)
• Ireland
15 Jun 07
I never hated aging until I hit 30 and then I have regretted every year. I am doing well with the wrinkles but getting very gray. Frankly, I think I was acute kid and it has all gone down hill from there, lol!
@rockingmom (885)
• Philippines
16 Jun 07
yah, so what to do now if you reach that age, ??...before you reach that age live life as if you're very free, but it is difficult, but don't worry cause it's fun to reach that age, as i'd said life starts at 40, it's normal to be afraid but still fight, thanks..good!
