a couple of weeks ago i posted about my friends hubby leaving her...

I guess if I was her I'd first ask, are you willing to try to work together to make things better. If anything other than the word "YES" comes out of his mouth then..... don't let the door hit you on the butt on the way out. It sounds more like he's blaming her for everything and expect her to do all the "better-ing". It takes two to make a relationship work and both have to be willing to compromise or they're wasting their time.

Sounds like emotional blackmail to me. No one deserves that. Sometimes I think that people should just let it end and not prolong the pain anymore. Like ripping off a bandaid quickly.

If his heart is in it that's quite sad but if it's for the best and the bridge can't get fixed your friend should get on with her life. (sounds harsh I know) The jerk doesn't deserve her to be wasting her life because of him. ~Joey Kudos!

I don't know what is the real situation in their relationship. But for a hubby to say those words as if threatening his wife to be left out again...well, I would say he is just blaming his wife for all the fault. I think he is not doing a fair share to smoothen and let their relationship work out. For a relationship to work well, both partners must try to really work it out and not just one-sided. Let him be, if he is not willing to cooperate....Just let him go.

Well, I don't know the whole situation...if your friend really did something that justified him leaving or not. But he came back, which means he is willing to give her a second chance. If his heart wasn't in it I don't think he would have come back, he wouldn't want to waste anymore of his time.